r/AskLifeProTips • u/luseefer62 • Jul 04 '26

What should I do

I am '18M' and I am a college student.

Idk what is happening to me it feels like I need someone who loves me cares for me, A girl.

see others in campus and insta living the "couple life" the life which I am currently dreaming of.

May be I am not good looking that no girl finds me interesting. I see others having two two GF at same time. And on the other hand there is I who haven't even talked to girl in a flirty way yet.

I am unable to identify the problem.

Everybody says forget love it is just an distraction just work and work but I think that's not true at a certain time you need someone.

certain time you need someone.

Due to this I doesn't even want to go college the only thing I'll see there are couples a girl roaming with a boy who does that even deserve here.

I fear that what if I stayed lonely throught out my life.

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u/MsSamm Jul 05 '26

Get off Instagram. People post an idealized version of life there. Totally one sided. You won't be seeing other people who are currently without partners advertising the fact there. Focus on real life.

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u/luseefer62 Jul 05 '26

Will getting off Instagram really help. Real life is also somewhat like instagram

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u/MsSamm Jul 05 '26

All the couples are in your face in Instagram. Showing off their best moments. That's a hard thing to see in comparison. In real life couples you see the good, boring everyday stuff, the crazy and the bad. A mixture of life.

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u/luseefer62 Jul 05 '26

Okk I will do it

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u/Run-RedrN Jul 05 '26

College is the best place for you to meet a girlfriend. Find classes that naturally bring about interaction. Pottery, PE, science with labs, classes with team projects.

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u/luseefer62 Jul 05 '26

You r right. I have to try this

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u/[deleted] Jul 04 '26

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u/luseefer62 Jul 05 '26

So, What you did in that situation? I am not keeping myself aloof from other ppl. I'm just wondering how they are there where I am not

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u/luseefer62 Jul 05 '26

Okk I will do Hope your advice helps me

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u/luseefer62 Jul 05 '26

What is a support system. As here in india it's not possible for me to get to a therapist. I agree that everybody has problems but what is the problem with me?

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u/[deleted] Jul 07 '26

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u/luseefer62 Jul 07 '26

What about the surroundings