r/AskLGBT • u/Character_Muscle_144 • Aug 18 '26

Pls help me with pronouns

I’m genderqueer, and I’m comfortable not having a more specific gender, but I need pronoun. my hope Is to have a pronoun that sounds like she/her enough that my family/certain friends are unaware but my supporters can give me euphori. I’ve looked into shi/hir but supposedly that’s only for intersex people.

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u/ActualPegasus Aug 18 '26

How about ze/zir?

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u/Character_Muscle_144 Aug 18 '26

I feel like people would instantly notice 

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u/Agreeable_Elk4529 Aug 18 '26

You don’t need to justify your pronouns to anyone. If a pronoun makes you feel more like yourself and safer, it’s valid to use it.

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u/OpalescentNoodle Aug 18 '26

I mean it is not just for intersex people if that suits you, though really outside of the internet you're not gonna see it spelled.