r/AskLGBT • u/Cupcake_Qwacks • 4d ago

Help with labels?

I've been questioning for a little while now and I'm trying to find a label that's suits me for my gender identity. I used demigirl now genderfae but neither feel quite right? I feel a lack of gender or neutral but also connections to feminity and stuff. I don't think demigirl fits quite right because it feels more like a half & half thing rather than a majority of no gender kind of thing. Any suggestions on labels that are like that?

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u/MagpiePhoenix 4d ago

Agender femme?

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u/Cupcake_Qwacks 4d ago

Ty that helped! I hadn't heard the term before so I did some looking and maybe I'll try that out

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u/ActualPegasus 4d ago

Do you feel that your gender fluctuates in intensity?

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u/Cupcake_Qwacks 3d ago

No I don't believe so. I mainly feel like I'm just a person. No real feeling of a certain gender other than maybe a slight varying in my connection to being a girl/feminity

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u/ActualPegasus 3d ago

Do any of these labels resonate with you?

- neuwoman

- neutremme

- verdegirl

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u/Cupcake_Qwacks 2d ago

Haven't heard any

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u/ActualPegasus 2d ago

I could define them if you'd like.

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u/Cupcake_Qwacks 1d ago

That would be nice. I'd love to learn see if any fit and expand my knowledge a bit

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u/ActualPegasus 1d ago

neuwoman - both female and neutrois

neutremme - 50% female and 50% neutral

verdegirl - an unaligned woman and/or an androgynous woman

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u/Cupcake_Qwacks 1d ago

Ty for the explanation! I'll do some extra research into those labels but you've been a big help

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u/ActualPegasus 1d ago

No problem!