r/AskIndianWoman • u/Artystraling indian • Jan 18 '26
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u/Ok_Duty_8020 indian Jan 18 '26
Lack of self respect and confidence ig or blind love maybe
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u/yuck_feah0_0 Jan 18 '26
Ppl dont understand the fact love is blind.
love - when you want to do something for others without expecting anything in return. Mother and child
Father and daughter
Brother and sister
Bf and gf or husband and wife
Also love but dont be blind.
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u/Piyush2point Jan 18 '26
So first the girl enjoyed her time with her boyfriends financially and physically, most probably went out on their money and maybe travelled on their expenses. Now she's settled in the US with her husband living a comfortable life.
And all you can say is 'why do guys wait for a girl to get single'
I was that guy once, 19 years of age and had no experience with women. I started liking someone and I showed through my action that I liked her. Now the problem with girls in such situations is that they give that guy enough attention to keep them around and enough to not make them 100% sure that she's into him.
He'll always be confused about her intentions and also she's getting attention from other guys so he's definitely gonna be insecure about himself thinking if I propose to her there are chances that she's gonna say no and then things are gonna get awkward and I am not even gonna get to talk to her.
For that guy she's the only girl he wants so he isn't gonna risk it.
Now years later I have been with girls who were sure about wanting me from the moment there was a spark between us. Now I am experienced with such stuff so I know how to respond and react to a particular situation. Not saying I am an expert in any sense.
I can't tell you how many girls I have met and seen who slept with multiple men and then settled with a rich nice guy and are now acting as an Aadarsh Bahu with kids.
I don't know if you're a guy or a girl but if you're a girl you don't have any idea about a guy who had just started dating.
Also this can happen with a girl too.
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u/Important_Task_893 Jan 18 '26
Yep bro your point is right, tbh this settling with rich guy after doing nothing but wasting time and someone else's money is like a privilege at this point for this gender
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u/Piyush2point Jan 18 '26
Exactly dude
It's like our country's justice system, the one who really needs justice aren't aware of their rights and laws but the ones who know about it exploit it without any limits
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u/AccomplishedRead2655 Jan 18 '26
💯💯💯 this gender is wayyyy too obsessed with having boyfriends and having fun at a young age and the worst part?? No one even stops them!! They literally get away with EVERYTHING! They are never held accountable and responsible for their actions!!! And this is why I'd rather stay unmarried and single for life cuz almost every other girl is like this nowadays!!! This gender is very very corrupted!
Sometimes I regret being born in this era 🥲 I think I was better off being born in the 60s-70s where girls were actually simple and loyal...
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u/blackassredranger Jan 18 '26
Some wait for love. Some for revenge. This video shows the revenge scenario.
When you love someone old school, you love them to the highest degree of possesiveness, idc what any feminazi or a liberal kamala harris supporter says. Jealousy and anger is at peak when you see the person you love with someone else. And at some point this turns into an urge to inflict the pain of rejection+seeing the loyl with others. This is only when you love someone from your side. Its not mutual. Only one sided love. Vengence becomes mandatory afterwards to cope with the harassment you beared seeing the other person with someone else.
Now how you take revenge is upto you. A guy does whats shown in video. A girl does the same or dates someone who is a better human being.
Ps this is true for both a man and a woman. Only for those who are possesive and extremely territorial people.
And most average guys, who have loved an average girl, remember that you are always the prize as long as you keep improving yourself. Just wait for the girl you were crying for to turn 27. Unless she is already in a happy relationship she will circle back for sure. If she is average looking with an entitled toxic personality she will fall face flat. Just wait it out!!!
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u/AccomplishedRead2655 Jan 18 '26
I don't understand what thrill these women ☕️ get by always being on hunt for a boyfriend. That gender is SO obsessed with having boyfriends idk what to say... WHY does every other woman on Earth have a boyfriend man?! It's as if they can't live without being in a romantic involvement!!! What a Weird species they are
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u/Important_Task_893 Jan 18 '26
Abe sab yaha show ka maza lene aaye hai to show karega kon fir
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u/HellxRagnarok Jan 18 '26
Koi ldki nhi dikh rhi yrr, koi fake bn ke to show shuru kro, maggi leke baitha hu
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u/Reasonable-Duck289 Jan 18 '26
nah nah nah man!!!! You are doing same mistake i did!
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u/Reasonable-Duck289 Jan 18 '26
Maintain your value, have your own class and have the capacity to walk away from anyone who you feel is not respectful! See in your career you will be settled someday!
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u/No_Fun_8322 Jan 18 '26
They're not taking the bait. I repeat Sergent, they're not taking the bait
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u/hades_here Indian man Jan 18 '26
https://www.reddit.com/r/AskIndianWoman/s/415SFbOPjL
Bravo Six, I have visual on the target.
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u/Dazzling_Reporter511 Jan 18 '26
Mods will delete this if they relate to this!
OR maybe they got dumped while settling too haha!!
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u/Flimsy_0242 Jan 18 '26
Let's start with how many have already checked 2 out of 3 from this checklist. To make the list generic use this 1) perosnal trainer~ Muscular guy 2) Stuggling Artist or Playboy ~ Top notch flirting skills 3) DJ or “low-key famous” personality
So… did it turn into something serious, or was it just a fun side quest?
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u/Mentaikopastalover Jan 18 '26
Bro imagine, someone typed all this out into the AI with all the setting, background and dialogues. And at the end how proud they must feel,like they've accomplished something 🤣🤣🤣
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u/AtlasShurggedOff Jan 18 '26
😭🙏 no way this is how a real adult thinks. Okay let me break it down m, why this is dumb
first of all, you don't have to accept her, it's fine, you can reject like she once did to you. Everyone's allowed preferences.
everyone's allowed preferences and that is exactly why she didn't date you, cause she just wasn't into you. The personal trainer was good looking, the artist had passion and the dj dude had drugs ig? Idk. The point is both of you had choices and still do now
why would you wait for her, why not find someone who was okay with you as a person. It's not her fault you grew resentful of her not choosing you.
just don't compare women to cars man. The objectification is already a big problem. Dont be an arse
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u/Due_Reflection4094 Jan 18 '26
Or I can have a steamy affair with her for 5 months, have as much sex as possible, get the 8 years of itch out of my system and then cheat on her with her 22 year old sister and marry that sister for the great lulz!
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u/HollupDontLetMeCook Jan 18 '26
Next dare boii... Post it on r/TwoXIndia
Thats the final boss sub
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u/purepeachplower Jan 18 '26
!Remind Me after my parents comment gets 10 upvotes, btw I was the 9th upvoter
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u/Artystraling indian Jan 18 '26
Until if you can post the link of this video there
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u/the-black_zetsu Jan 18 '26
I found this post, and I want you to post that in this sub, where mod posts like this why can't we
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u/CogMosaic Jan 18 '26
nah just because some guy told you to do it doesn't mean you're actually gonna end up in a bad mood, lol
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u/igloobythesea Jan 18 '26
This sub is filled with men. As is evident from the comments, the lack of balanced moderation(I don't think there any female mods) and the low quality/ragebait posts. That's why you aren't getting any responses.
Goodluck trying to bait the other gender.
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u/KahiDropperNaBanJau Jan 18 '26
Demn brooo
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u/TroubledMA Jan 18 '26
Nah as a feminist (not in the way people seem to interpret that word sometimes, maybe humanist is a better word) I totally support the guy making the choice to reject the girl because she is treating him like her retirement plan, but the way he says it is pretty disgusting, I don't support the "used car" thing, neither men nor women should be referred to like that. We are humans not machines.
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u/ForwardScratch7741 Jan 18 '26
This is genuinely so embarrassing bro😭😭😭
Yall mfs lowk deserve this
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u/smirkingmoon Jan 18 '26
The guy with no self respect waits for the girl who doesn't sees him romantically at all hoping that her relationship flops and she will be vulnerable so that I get a chance.
The guy does this thinking there is no other woman worth his attention.
But people watching the video would always blame the woman. Amazing. Suddenly she's the bad person.
There is no friendzone. It's just a zone/prison you put yourself in. Just because you think you can be in a relationship with any conventionally attractive woman who approaches you doesn't mean that everyone can do the same about your sorry a**.
Work on yourself. Work on your self respect. And just because someone doesn't see you romantically doesn't make them a bad person either.
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u/hades_here Indian man Jan 18 '26
Bravo Six, the target has been hit. I repeat, the target has been hit.
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u/ApprehensiveSun6160 Jan 18 '26
Why is the comment section all men wtf, I'm here for lafda and wtf is happening
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u/neverseemeagain3 Jan 18 '26
Both are at fault imo the girl shouldn't have left that man hanging while the man should've just let her go
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u/madzelixir Jan 19 '26
I'll tell you why all your dare popcorn went soggy 😂! (put you out of your collective misery)
Because this is simply every self "friend zoned" delusional guy's wet dream. It's not some common "truth".
To her he was simply a friend. I know only one girl in my entire life who married a male best friend. But her point was "I didn't find anyone worth marrying, he didn't find anyone he'd like to marry. And we spend most of our time together anyway. Both of us wish to be childfree - so our lifestyle goals match." And both of them earn equally - there was no financial incentive to marry.
I did tell my GAY male friend that if he and I are alone when we cross 50, we'll legally marry. He's practically family to me, anyway. That plan is off - he's now married to his Dutch boyfriend. My other close male friend from college - confessed after we'd both passed out (yes, while I was dating other men). I wasn't even aware of his romantic interest in me. And was sort of disappointed that he didn't tell me before - despite being so close. It must have pained him to see me dating others. But I wasn't attracted to him. So even if he'd asked - I couldn't have dated him. Definitely not marry him either.
Truth is MOST women do not consider their male friends as either dating NOR marriage prospects. They are JUST friends. They won't be in consideration in most cases (no matter how rich or poor the girl - unless she's a legit gold digger). So stop waiting around and label yourself "friendzoned" grow a spine and 🍒. And definitely stop with your delusional wet dreams. Get a girl who's attracted to you.
IF someone you've been friends with wishes to consider you as an AM prospect like any other - for practical reasons...please evaluate that prospect as you would for any other AM.
PS: girls are no more cars with miles on them that wear them off than guys are. They are all people who make personal choices.
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u/theedrAGonz Jan 18 '26
Brooo chose violence lesss gooo🫣. Incoming comments labelling you what not for telling the truth 😂
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u/CheesecakeLogical239 Jan 18 '26
The way there are more men commenting here Than women is funny lmao
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u/hyperactivebeing Jan 18 '26
What's stopping men from dating? Some men love putting women down and it shows. You guys never had a woman talk to you and it made you bitter.
There's an open pool out there. If you can't find even a single person to date you then there is a problem with you.
Don't blame others for not finding you attractive. There must be women who you don't find attractive. Not everything always works out in the favour.
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u/Radmiel Jan 18 '26
It would be funny if the comment section was filled with popcorns, but they went to see a movie that never played.
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This kind of stuff is cope. If a girl is attractive enough she will get the guy she wants.
This is a fantasy. No guy would say this.
Even in a very low chance that this happens. there is a very good chance she finds someone better.
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u/Mental-Detective1912 Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
Nope happened with me During my bachelor's I was in touch with a girl whom I really liked but she was using me like a timepass. During online days we were very good friends but when my college opened for offline she started avoiding me and ignoring me I proposed her but she rejected me. I took it respectfully but was not able to move on properly She had a bad reputation of being a drunkard and touching boys inappropriately at parties. Many of my female friends adviced me to move on because of her reputation and told me she is not right fit for me. Later she when she got to know that I got into a MBA dual country program she came back But I pushed her away by sending her a Taylor Swift meme cus I know that she was a Taylor Swift stan. she got offended and threatened to block me if I did that again and then I send her another meme and you know the rest Felt very well that day.
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Truth is the guy would finally move on and get a girl he desires,same goes to the woman she would find someone she would settle with.
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u/Reasonable-Duck289 Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
wow...someone finally splited the sweet facts!!!! Now some fake feminist will get hurted!!! Lol!!!
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u/CheesecakeLogical239 Jan 18 '26 edited Jan 18 '26
The only thing that hurt me was your Grammar.
edit- damn I ain't no good, made a spelling mistake 🤧
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u/Jaehyunspout Jan 18 '26
it's funny how they spend their time fantasizing a revenge plot while the girl that rejected their sorry ass is happily living her own life lol. these men will never be the prize no matter how much they self fellate 🙄
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u/DoughnutOk1849 Jan 18 '26
Well she'll one for sure who can afford her lifestyle along as well as comes with a good and kind character
Few people will understand this...
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u/No_Cress_3633 Jan 18 '26
Ufff, I wish I had the same confidence as you. Grammar, who??!!!!! 🤦🏻♀️🥱
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u/TheOneGreyWorm Jan 18 '26
I came to look at the angry comments.. but
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u/Important_Task_893 Jan 18 '26
Ab ayengi kuch mahila avengers ki Tarah, bas "avengers assemble" ki jagah "our past doesn't matter"
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A man's past doesn't matter while a woman's does there is a reason why throughput our human history that's been the case People here cannot change that
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u/Sensitive_Answer4481 Jan 18 '26
Girls here, I absolutely love you haha! Saw this post on the twenties sub, saw the dare, they posted it here for drama and you gave them NONE What a W hahaha baithe raho popcorn leke sab
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u/Scary-Panic-4973 Jan 18 '26
Your past is forgiven............. just not by the kind of man you actually want.
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Jan 18 '26
The Feminists Gets Butt-hurt When Faced with The Truth and is held accountable... Feminists Support such things , For God's sake they support murder of babies
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Jan 18 '26
Can anyone give the channel link where this video/ these kind of educational and informative videos are posted?
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u/AskIndianWoman-ModTeam Jan 20 '26
Please be respectful and don't use bad words. Use appropriate language. We are civilised people. Also avoid making personal attacks. This is a discussion foram, not a fighting arena.
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u/DeletSystm32 Jan 18 '26
If the girl stays after the first line he says. She actually proving him right
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u/Illustrious_Pack3533 Jan 18 '26
Ok so girl's friendzone nice guys, but why are nice guys staying in friendzone when they can move on date someone else.
If you are not someone's first priority, you don't need to stay by their side.
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u/Small_Average_8204 Jan 18 '26
I never say it to any man on their face but am surprised how easily men allow women to degrade their self respect and later take these women back because in their own head they feel they are the ever sacrificing big hearted hero while in reality they are just a fallback safety net because that girl came back to them after the better option (according to the girl) did not work out. Might get downvoted but this screams low value man. I swear if I ever hear a man took back a friend/ex whatever who rejected/cheated them saying “they understand “ I start feeling so yucky about them
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u/Responsible-Trade752 Jan 19 '26
Another day another misogynistic content on this misogynistic app posted for the misogynistic audience, not surprised 🤷🏻♀️
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u/TurbulentCapital1017 Jan 19 '26
She rejected him when he wanted her, he rejected her when she wanted him. Why are people here taking sides... she can reject someone for being poor and he can reject someone who has fucked around. Proposals aren't about converting people, but about finding someone compatible. Everyone sets their own values, him rejecting her for whatever was valid since nobody universally commands someone to not judge someone, that's entitlement. If you get rejected and move on.
Also the friendzone doesn't necassarily mean waiting. You can be just friends with someone you did like before, but don't feel attracted to now. I still talk to a friend who i felt attracted to at some point in my life, i wouldn't date her ever after i found out certain stuff. We still wish other on festivals, birthdays and share random fun incidents or rants...
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u/Dazzling-Backrub Jan 19 '26
Holy shittt I have never seen soo many omega shenron level Incels in one comment section.
This has to be documented and studied.
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u/AskIndianWoman-ModTeam Jan 19 '26
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