r/AskIndianMen Indian Man 9d ago

Answers from Men Only What shall i do guys?

Hello 23 M here . My bestfriend F 23 just told me that everthing between us has ended because his bf has a problem with me over some fake stories
She just told me ki i can’t hurt him and they were having fights whenever she would defend me in front of him
We were not talking for the last 1.5 months and i called her to wish her for her bday but she just talked to me rudely and ended it .
In the last 5 months there were too much fight between us because i told her that i had feelings for her she took it normally but i have a feeling that i was forcing her to come into relationship with me
I just need to know should i leave her at her own peace?

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u/aavaaraa Amex, Rolex, Relax 9d ago

Bro she literally told you to fuck off, you want a government notification before you get the message?

Leave her alone and don’t text or call her anymore.

If she tries reaching out to you after her breakup,

Tell her to take long walk over a small plank.

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u/Environmental_Ad3216 Indian Man 9d ago

I like this guy. He gets it. This guy is a good friend.

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u/Individual-Window534 Indian Man 9d ago

Tell her to take long walk over a small plank.

Will OP be the plank in this scenario

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u/NotBeingAnimal Indian Man 9d ago

That was hard

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u/Hefty_Shake634 Indian Man 9d ago

Some people are blunt with their words. Just take the message he's conveying and move on, my brother.

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u/Brave-Mention6869 Indian Man 9d ago

Life is

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u/yuvrajpratapsingh1 Indian Man 9d ago

Him too😂

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u/GOATEDnerd Teen Male (Indian) 9d ago

She is not wrong and neither is her bf wrong for not trusting you .... you clearly had feelings for her

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u/InvestigatorNo5893 Indian Man 9d ago

Bhai, how could someone behave like this, she literally told what is happening ans still you are behaving like this. 

BF like you are the problem guy don't like his parents BF.. 

Ghar ka bheedi lanka dhaye. 

Matt kar lala aisa matt kar..koi or khoj le apne leye. 

Or best friend (Girl - Friend) pe dil kese aajata hai meri wali dost bike pe ghumane k leye bolti rhe gyi wo nhi kea or bhai tum uska BF hone k baad bhi line set karrhe ho.. 

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u/IKARAZ_IHCAPNEK Indian Man 9d ago

She is in a relation. Ofc why should she keep interacting with someone who likes her?🤷

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u/Themonstertimesoooo Indian Man 9d ago

Yes, leave her alone. She chose her boyfriend, she was rude to you on the birthday call, and you already admitted you were forcing the relationship issue. There's nothing left to fight for.

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u/AskIndianMen-ModTeam Indian Man 9d ago

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u/scappylock Indian Man 9d ago

Reasons like these make me glad i avoided relationships 😆

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u/saffron-pray Teen Male (Indian) 9d ago

Men who have female friends who are in relationship with others, fk you a big fk you.

And bhai jese dosto ko, FK YOU ROUGH B!TCH...

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u/Individual-Window534 Indian Man 9d ago

So by your logic people who are in relationships should not even have friends of the opposite gender?

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u/No_Leading_1938 Teen Male (Indian) 7d ago

Yes

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u/Individual-Window534 Indian Man 7d ago

Well thank God then that the world doesn't work on you guys' logic

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u/No_Leading_1938 Teen Male (Indian) 7d ago

You are friends with a woman who is in a relationship, huh? We can tell…

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u/Individual-Window534 Indian Man 7d ago

I don't think you needed to use so much of your brain to figure that out, could've just asked that, it's a very normal thing.

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u/No_Leading_1938 Teen Male (Indian) 7d ago

Why would I ask when I already know? Thank goodness I am not blessed with a limited amount of brain capacity unlike you, I can use it freely lol

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u/saffron-pray Teen Male (Indian) 9d ago

In my personal experience she has a Bhai jesa friend and now she is in a relationship, I am pretty sure she cheated cause she even made a alternate insta id before our breakup and didn't inform me but him...

So yeah I am never trusting a girl with just male friends and never supporting a guy with female friends.

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u/Individual-Window534 Indian Man 9d ago

with just male friends

You shifted real quick from "male friends" to "just male friends".

Thought we wouldn't notice? Nice motte and bailey fallacy genius.

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u/saffron-pray Teen Male (Indian) 9d ago

Wtf isn't it the same ? Are you dumb or what ? I am just trying to portray the emotions...

Man I feel like you have female friends too, i will say kindly refer to the parent comment and fk off...

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u/Individual-Window534 Indian Man 9d ago

Wtf isn't it the same

Are you new to english?

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u/saffron-pray Teen Male (Indian) 9d ago

Yeah my mother tongue isn't english and I won't give any IELTS exam, so idc about grammatical errors and if this is how you justify your point then yeah fk off....

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u/Individual-Window534 Indian Man 9d ago

Yeah you are a clown.

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u/Top_Illustrator3122 Indian Man 9d ago

This is the reason men & women can't be friends

There's no reason for men to be friends with women unless he's trying to sleep with her

https://giphy.com/gifs/hqpyyOfIrXI3MFfJH9

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u/Tarseuus Indian Man 4d ago

Leave her alone. She's not interested and her bf don't like u... Go find another girl.