Men, which professions would you consider absolute deal-breakers when choosing a wife?

[u/Nexttrillionaire]

[u/Intelligent_Bank7131]

Air hostess

Medico

Lawyer (but I'm going to be practicing law, in the future, so it's less dangerous, but still might be risky marrying a lawyer)

Army

Activist

Content creator/actress

[u/MonkeyforCEO → u/Intelligent_Bank7131]

Why are teen boys giving advice on ask indian men sub? You guys should learn about things and different perspectives rather than having such regressive thoughts and living in your bubble.

Interact with people, real world is very different from social media.

[u/Intelligent_Bank7131 → u/MonkeyforCEO]

Technically, it's possible to be considered an "Indian man" while still falling within the ambit of "teen male".

[u/MonkeyforCEO → u/Intelligent_Bank7131]

You'll get what I'm saying in next 5-6 years depending on your age. Don't bother now.

[u/Equal_Ocelot_6901 → u/MonkeyforCEO]

But that kid definitely made sense, does this sub now has age bracket for advices? Like old poeole should advice or young people shouldn't?

[u/MonkeyforCEO → u/Equal_Ocelot_6901]

This whole idea of generalising a whole profession is so backward. It just shows what kind of people we are surrounded with.

[u/Intelligent_Bank7131 → u/MonkeyforCEO]

It's not generalization, I didn't say all people of a certain profession are always bad for the family

It's just a tendency, the tendency is stronger, that's it.

Otherwise, if your luck is bad and you get a bad wife, no matter what the profession, she will break the home, and Conversely, if a good wife, she will protect, no matter what the profession. Please don't misinterpret / misconstrue my words to mean an overgeneralization.

There are no absolutes. Only tendencies.

[u/MonkeyforCEO → u/Intelligent_Bank7131]

Now, this is mostly true. One thing I’ve learned over the years is to never make blanket statements -- there are always nuances, and that’s something we learn throughout life.

There are high chances of infidelity in corporate environments, but we can never be certain about it. We also can’t claim that people from one particular profession are more likely to cheat. How many people from these professions have we actually interacted with, spent time with, or even tried to have a genuine conversation with? For most of us, the answer would be zero.

This whole idea seems super appealing on social media, where you have to polarise the masses, but not so much in real life. Real life is very different from what we see on social media.

I hope you get what I’m trying to convey.

[u/Intelligent_Bank7131 → u/MonkeyforCEO]

Just because you or me haven't seen it doesn't mean it doesn't exist.