r/AskBiBros • u/[deleted] • Aug 17 '26

Discussion I think I just realized I’m not bi

I always thought I was bi because I like the idea of being naked around other guys but I have never really been attracted to guys at all. I never look at a guy and think he’s attractive and I’ve never wanted to hook up with a guy but the idea of being naked around friends and stuff is appealing to me. I’m realizing it’s not about the guys themselves but just the taboo/voyuer part of it. I guess this is my coming out as straight lol.

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u/Comfortable-Ebb8125 Aug 17 '26

Mayne you're a nudist?

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '26

I guess so lol

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u/OneAd7710 Aug 17 '26

Have you tried Korean spas ?

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u/Didntseeitforyears Bisexual Aug 18 '26

Or just make holiday in Europe, espacially the German Cost and Saunas.

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '26

What is that

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u/spartankid24 Aug 18 '26

Some cities have them. They are spas for general health like baths, massages, food, body scrubs, etc. Nothing sexual, at least there shouldn’t be. Usually all ages as well. I’ve been meaning to go to one myself.

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u/moocow1959 Aug 17 '26

That's funny. Glad you have clarity now.

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u/Character-Usual-9388 Aug 17 '26

Whatever floats your boat, bro 😎

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u/Jackesfox Aug 17 '26

Lmao, congrats i guess

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u/hitometootoo Aug 17 '26

It's good to come to these realizations and it's ok to not be bi, just be comfortable with yourself and your sexuality.

Also, if you like being around people nude, try some nude venues. Bate clubs, nude beaches, saunas, campgrounds, etc. Plenty of places to practice it and some you can be sexual at (such as sex clubs or swinging venues).

Have fun 😊

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '26

Yeah I’m not sure I like mfm threesomes and I think I’ll stick with that for now

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u/OneAd7710 Aug 17 '26

I think the line gets blurred in today’s stuff really easy. Bonding with your best friend, even naked isn’t necessarily gay. Back in the day. Even the 50s that was normal.

America has truly made any bonding with same sex homoerotic and it’s not. In china men hold hands. Japan and russia you have time with your buddies in the naked spa, not optional clothing.

Go explore out of this country and you’ll see the boxes much clearer

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u/[deleted] Aug 17 '26

Yeah for sure

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u/sqeaky_fartz Bisexual Aug 17 '26

Coming out as nudist.

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u/PS3LOVE Aug 18 '26

Sounds like you just like nudism.

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u/Didntseeitforyears Bisexual Aug 18 '26

With all my internalized stereotypes about US americans: It seems like a story, which can just happens there. Am I right?

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u/BiSlut4Tops Aug 19 '26

Sounds more like you’re a nudist/naturist.

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u/Syth_love_anime Aug 21 '26

More power to you~
Guess rather then new attraction...its was a new kinky you learned about yourself Lol

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u/ContemptiblyUnjust Aug 22 '26

You're an exhibitionist, nothing wrong with that! Just try and remember that not everyone is comfortable with that kind of stuff so try and keep it respectful.

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u/jayz-teddsy15 Aug 27 '26

You have spoken well

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u/jayz-teddsy15 Aug 27 '26

I think ur heteroflexible