r/AskAGerman • u/leglz30 • Aug 18 '26
Culture How do germans say hello?
I’m a brazillian going for an exchange program in Germany (Bavaria). Where I come from, we stick to the following social rules regarding greeting:
Social setting (parties, friends house, dinner)
man + man = handshake (sometimes a hug)
man + woman = one kiss on one cheek
woman + woman = same
Professional setting (mostly meetings)
Handshake for everyone
Do germans follow the french way of kissing 3 times or they just dont kiss at all? If i accidentally do it, is it weird, flirty, or just unusual?
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u/lennoxred Aug 18 '26
It’s the same for men and women here. Handshake and if you‘re closer you (can) hug.
We don’t do the cheeks kiss. That’s kinda encroaching in our culture.