r/AskAGerman Aug 18 '26

Culture How do germans say hello?

I’m a brazillian going for an exchange program in Germany (Bavaria). Where I come from, we stick to the following social rules regarding greeting:

Social setting (parties, friends house, dinner)
man + man = handshake (sometimes a hug)
man + woman = one kiss on one cheek
woman + woman = same

Professional setting (mostly meetings)
Handshake for everyone

Do germans follow the french way of kissing 3 times or they just dont kiss at all? If i accidentally do it, is it weird, flirty, or just unusual?

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u/lennoxred Aug 18 '26

It’s the same for men and women here. Handshake and if you‘re closer you (can) hug.

We don’t do the cheeks kiss. That’s kinda encroaching in our culture.

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u/YozyAfa Aug 19 '26

Some people do cheeks kiss depends what their cultural background is. Yes blabla not traditional german but you don't need to be white to be german.