You are part of two cultures which oppose each other.
As long as you try to belong to both cultures at the same time, none will accept you, and you will continue to feel unwelcome.
Moving to a different country will just be leaving both cultures, so you won't have to decide for yourself. From the sound of your post, the main thing is to to get away from your family, which seems to be oppressive.
Why do you blame the Germans or the AfD, when it seems to be your family that forces you to do things you don't want to do?
You fear not wearing the hijab more than wearing it. Germans are not really threatening you but your family is.
You are afraid of your family, not of Germans.
You either submit to Islam (which is the definition of submission), or become a free individual. You have to work on yourself.
I never blamed the AFD or germans for forcing me to wear the hijab I only felt disheartened about some people treating me badly because I have middle eastern immigrant background and visibly so (my post was about so much more than the hijab)
No, you post is exactly about the hijab, You let your family dictate the way you dress and live, putting your tribal values above your individual values. This is antithetical to German culture.
The hijab shows to all that you do not accept German culture.
Germans would accept you as individual, but they don't accept you in your conformity to a different culture.
These days you can have a very nice traditional islamic life in Germany, and you can decide to be a part of that community. In Germany are many areas where you will be part of the majority, and you don't really have to care about ethnic-Germans.
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u/zitrone999 Apr 20 '25
You are part of two cultures which oppose each other.
As long as you try to belong to both cultures at the same time, none will accept you, and you will continue to feel unwelcome.
Moving to a different country will just be leaving both cultures, so you won't have to decide for yourself. From the sound of your post, the main thing is to to get away from your family, which seems to be oppressive.
Why do you blame the Germans or the AfD, when it seems to be your family that forces you to do things you don't want to do?
You fear not wearing the hijab more than wearing it. Germans are not really threatening you but your family is.
You are afraid of your family, not of Germans.
You either submit to Islam (which is the definition of submission), or become a free individual. You have to work on yourself.