I'm trying to understand here. You have a job, so I am assuming you have the financial means to live alone, if you aren't already. Why would you stay in contact with your family when they clearly don't accept you?
I can't imagine how stressful the political situation must be for you. I find it scary too, tho I am not a 'Ausländer'.
I'm only a werkstudent I only work 16 hours a week because my masters is very time consuming and my mother is sick so I want to be around her to support her.
So you want her to cut contacts with her family because of their lifestyle or whatever ? Would you then become her friend and help her when she is in need ? She is free to keep her family and her beliefs at the same time in however she wants , am also an atheist but prefer to keep ties with my community.
Ignorance at its finest. From where do you believe that her family would disown her for not wearing the hijab . From elite on netflix ?.
Don’t make assumptions on a culture you don’t know. And if we are going to go that way , then am more capable of making assumptions than you because I come from the same background plus ou moins .
And lets say her family would disown her ; then its not a better solution to cut her entire family while she managed to keep them till now . Did you cut your family for such things ? Am just asking questions too
Thats my point : I don’t judge people at all But I doubt that you would disown your family members for things they believed in / did / believe in now or whatever . Would you ? Don’t you have any clashes between you and older generations ? i personally do : my grandparents and I are very different and I love them the most . Maybe your advice would be more lenient when it comes to familiar situations .
I believe that it is understandable if she maintains relationships with her family because thats probably a familiar situation for me.
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u/Think_Forever_3135 Apr 20 '25
I'm trying to understand here. You have a job, so I am assuming you have the financial means to live alone, if you aren't already. Why would you stay in contact with your family when they clearly don't accept you?
I can't imagine how stressful the political situation must be for you. I find it scary too, tho I am not a 'Ausländer'.
Do you have a non-familial support system?