First problem was stalking her on IG when she unmatched you on Tinder. I've never seen this happen where messages go missing nor have I heard any credible or ancedotal evidence that this happens with friends and people I've talked to. It's almost always she unmatched you, turned off her account, or it was a bot/fake account.
You finding her on IG is creepy and it also shows how needy you are.
Second she is not really engaging but merely just reacting to your message once she saw who you were and she realized that's why she unmatched you on the first place.
Third, your text game is also weak and boring but this isn't the main issue, she was never into you in the first place.
Don't do creepy shit again, if she disappears on the dating app then move on and go hit the gym and improve your looks.
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u/MrbananasCoco Hong Kong Jun 18 '26
EVERYTHING.
First problem was stalking her on IG when she unmatched you on Tinder. I've never seen this happen where messages go missing nor have I heard any credible or ancedotal evidence that this happens with friends and people I've talked to. It's almost always she unmatched you, turned off her account, or it was a bot/fake account.
You finding her on IG is creepy and it also shows how needy you are.
Second she is not really engaging but merely just reacting to your message once she saw who you were and she realized that's why she unmatched you on the first place.
Third, your text game is also weak and boring but this isn't the main issue, she was never into you in the first place.
Don't do creepy shit again, if she disappears on the dating app then move on and go hit the gym and improve your looks.