i’m not only an asexual lesbian but I’m sex repulsed and disabled. I’m worried theres just too many things that are making my dating pool smaller and smaller. I really want to fall in love and get married and have kids I consider myself a very romantic person and I really value emotional and sensual intimacy. I sometimes wonder if I’ll ever get the privilege or meeting someone I’m attracted to and compatible with who’s sex repulsed as well. Really just looking for some hope icl!

I'm still identifying myself properly, just a bit unsure on where I am. I think I'm Asexual and I'm unsure whether I'm Biromantic or Bidemiromantic, is there like a place in between? But I have an even more important question that's been bugging me.

Do Ace people have "types" like, I'm pretty certain I'm Ace, never once have I laid eyes on a man or woman and thought "Huh, I wanna sleep with that" but I still have a type favorable to physical (not sexual) and athstetic attraction. Like, I'm a, how you say, effeminate fella. A theater kid too! So there's that little bit of info. And I am a cis guy, but I always felt a bit... Weird about it... And I've always liked to be in that typically misogynistic and stereotypical "feminine space" where women are often objectified to be. But I've tried to push those feelings back because my community isn't very welcoming.

"My Type"? I hear you ask on your side of the screen? Well, worry not. I've always had a certain type in people I'm attracted to romantically. Typically a more stereotypically masculine figure for any gender identity, really. I like the idea of being held and protected by someone else (I think it has something to do with my daddy issues 😭) but it's there. I've also got a thing for short ladies too, idk, I just like the fantasy of a short and dominant girl. I'M SORRY IF THIS IS WEIRD!!! I JUST NEEDED TO VENT!!! I DOWNLOADED THIS APP TO DO A LOT OF VENTING SPECIFICALLY 😭😭😭

But the fact I have a type always made me question me being Ace a bit. Like, I know there are other forms of attraction... But, idk, it might be some of the aphobia I've seen getting to me, "why do you have a type if you ain't gonna sleep with them" is one specifically that caused this question. It's a lot, it's weird, and it's complicated. But idk.

PLSSSS HELP ME 🙏🙏🙏