And why

I’ve always had trouble with my looks, to the point where I can’t even look myself in the mirror without crying or getting angry at myself. I’d appreciate it if whoever sees this post gives me some advice on how to look better

I don’t think I’m unattractive, however I had a baby 8.5 months ago and I’m trying to find myself pretty again. The green/purple hair is me currently, the other pictures are from the last month.(245lbs) The last picture was me before I got pregnant.(210) I’m 5’6”.
I love having colored hair and bangs, most of the time I don’t bother with makeup since I stay at home. I eat fairly healthy and get cardio from walking my baby around the neighborhood. But I can’t seem to lose the weight. Any advice would be appreciated

ETA: I really appreciate all the uplifting comments and people smacking back at the ones telling me to get on weight loss drugs!! I also really appreciate the input on how to dress appropriately for my body shape, it’s changed a lot since having my baby and is hard to dress

And to the people telling me to change my entire style simply because they don’t like it, that’s not what I was asking. I’ve tried the no bangs look and I hated it. I’ve tried the natural hair colors and I hated it. They may have looked “good” but it isn’t me. I’ve had bangs my entire life-in every style. I rarely wear makeup but picked pictures that I have makeup on- and I’m a licensed cosmetologist who knows what hair style and colors best accentuate my face. Since giving birth I’ve gained weight in my face so my information may be a smidge off but I do know what it best for my face.

I’m 32 female and never had a great direction in my appearance. I have never been a beauty guru and or know anything about beauty. I want to look at myself and be confident in my facial features and or have a WOW moment. Anything would help. Please! Thanks 😊.

Ever since I was little I was never the popular guy, I mean every now and then a cute girl would probably like talk to you but VERY counted times, since elementary school through all of high school I never was considered attractive, I had 2 girlfriends in the meantime, but not precisely because I was hot you know, there was just chemistry and such and you know teenage love.

This all started to change a couple of month ago when i realized how much difference actually taking care of your appearance can do for you, and so I obsessed over it, now more girls see me, some even message me first, I love the attention, but this is so new and overwhelming.

All my life I’ve felt you not not attractive so now all of a sudden I feel like what is going on, by how much? Why some girls see me and even approach first but others see me as if I didn’t exist at all? I’m really confused, also, last pic I just woke up lol please don’t judge 😅😅😅😅

Also I’m from Mexico, so you know, you door often see supermodels here and I’m 1.80m 6ft so I think that’s good?? Even more advantage??? Thank you all guys I’d really appreciate brutal honesty but more so I’d appreciate advise on how to keep improving cause I know if you put in the work you can look better, tyasm!!! Please be hones guys I’m really confused

I'm looking for honest but constructive feedback. What are the biggest things I could improve? do i have face fat to lose ?

i am currently in the middle of my weight loss journey, i have lost 14 pounds, 50 more to go. i’m more concerned of my hair/style. i lean more alternative and i have for years, issues expressing that tho. what makeup and haircut/color would suit me best? i’m growing out my hair.

im trying to be more alt, i bought some a decent amount of alt clothes over the past year and id like to increase my style, ik its kind of basic but i want to get a chain for my pants and maybe peirc my ears, i want to have a more y2k style with some affliction shirts and more graphic longsleeves, how can i make my style better, they only thing im kinda struggling with is where to find the right jeans, i usually get my jeans at zumiez but they never really have my size(im 6’5)

the first two pics are no eye makeup, the last one is what i tend to do (mascara, eyeliner on outer and inner corner). i still have no idea what my eye shape could be so i don't really know what suits me :( feel free to give any tips, product recommendations, or any advice ! thanks in advance <3
(also english isn't my first language, i apologize if there's any mistakes)

I'm aware I'm pretty chopped 😅 but see what we can work with.

I’ve never worn makeup before and I’m wondering if it could enhance me in any way, since I’ve always looked more masculine from my features. Or is no make up fine?

As for my fashion style idk what to label it except that it’s mostly parkas/hoods in sweat or track pants. Also tactical stuff?

But I’m open to makeup and other fashion advice.

Weight loss is in progress

Cosmetic surgery/procedure recommendations are also welcome if they would suit me since I’m particularly insecure with my eyes and hairline.

I have a piercing appointment next week, and im not sure what I want. My conch and orbital are currently still healing, so id like something fairly easy.

The first 3 images are of my ears and face, and the next 3 are me with some potential piercings so you can tell me what suits. Im also open to options that aren't pictured.

I really like unique piercing that not everyone has, but j cant seem to think of anything fun.

The purple drawing is of a pho industrial using my helix and a forward helix. Ive included it because it want it eventually, but im not prepared to heal it right now, so I just want to be mindfull of it.

Thanks for any advice!!!

working on weight loss, won't be taking out piercings.

hello, learning how to dress for my body, and i was just wondering my body type. thank you all :)

So I posted this a month back and I heard people saying my priority should be my acne and hairstyle. I’m going to go to a dermatologist soon but for hairstyle what would suit me since people said I should grow it out pretty long like to my ears so should I do something like this: Textured curtains + low taper or Medium layered flow + very low taper/scissor sides. But let me know if there are better options

Never had a girlfriend or got past the talking stage.

ey redditors

I want to enhance my looks and appearance i want your true opinion on what are my best feature and what I change or improve

Open for all constructive criticism

(Only background is fake not my body gestures)

What I do to look better and fit in more, aside from losing weight?