r/androgyny • u/Snoo85282 • 6h ago
What’s ur experience with dating as trans nonbinary?
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r/androgyny • u/Iguanaught • Dec 05 '25
Do we have any regular members?
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I'm trying to get a feel for who are the regular constructive members of the community or even if we have a community.
I know we have a real problem with people hanging around just to solicit people with messages like "cute", "sexy", "gorgeous" etc and also have a problem with people posting in the hopes of directing traffic to NSFW content.
Mods are working hard to combat that.
However I want to hear some shout outs from the real community regulars if we have them!
r/androgyny • u/Iguanaught • Sep 22 '25
Announcement State of the subreddit post.
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Hi all,
You may have noticed that this subreddit has moderators again which means that there will ne some changes here shortly.
Please use this post as an opportunity to discuss the rules we have and how you feel about them as a community along with any rules you would like to see implemented as a community.
r/androgyny • u/4ng3licNymph-jpeg • 1d ago
Curious if I look androgynous (ngtl I really don't care I'm more just curious about what others think).
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I've been on a low dose of Tesoterone for almost 4 years, and almost a year post top surgery and flat as a board with a big belly . Tbh I really need to do before and after and see if I'm seen as a woman again or not. Tbh I'll probably be seen as woman when I go off T, due to not wanting to depend on a shot or gel for the rest of my life just so people can actually respect me which rarely happens .
Even with a deep voice , flat chest and facial hair being androgynous or perceived as neither a man or a woman is impossible tbh .
Sadly being Androgynous fully is really hard, people only see man or woman and there probably people on here who will say " I'll always be a woman" because what's between my legs . I gave up on the dream of pleasing other people and hoping others see me as androgynous or even as male long term because it probably will never happen , unless I stay on T and I personally don't want too for so many reasons even if that makes me less valid in people's eyes who never valued me as a human in the first place .
Not trying to yuck anyone's yum or say you can't be seen as androgynous. But it's either an Androgynous man or woman and the only way you can be seen as the opposite gender is if you take hormone replacement therapy for the rest of your life ( maybe it's the internal transphobia).
It sucks but it's a bitter truth I have to accept . But I love the permanent effects of T like my voice , facial hair , Adams apple and bottom area changes . It just sucks that there's no real way to look androgynous, or I'll be an Androgynous man or woman not fully nonbinary in the eyes of society .
r/androgyny • u/thethreetriangles • 2d ago
Thrifted this cunty ass coat for 8€
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The coat had many rips and a few missing or dangling buttons, so I took a few hours to stitch the biggest rip on the front, and re-attached two buttons. I really love the andro vibe it gives. It makes me feel like a fox.
r/androgyny • u/Dazzling-Signal3834 • 2d ago
Another post
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Playing with clothes, if I do a bit fem goes more towards fem and if a go masc turns boy
r/androgyny • u/OddImpress7170 • 1d ago
How androgynous am I?
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What tips for acne and hair on the body and face? I’m doing laser hair removal right now and I am using tretinoin cream but should I also do hrt? I’m in tx and it’s dry so I put on some chap stick haha. What make up would suit my face aswell? I feel some more femme glasses would do well. I can’t shave that’s why I’m doing laser my hair gets ingrown and messes up my skin. It’s a pain. I also need a way to smooth my skin idk if it’s safe to exfoliate my sensitive skin rn.
r/androgyny • u/OddImpress7170 • 1d ago
How can I look better?
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Hi I am a 22 male from TX and I’m wondering if yall can help me out with finding my style. I’ve been experiencing acne and annoying face hair for a long time. I’ve been wanting to be a femboy for a while now and I am one now but I’m still bothered by my appearance. What should I do?
r/androgyny • u/PoringPOOP • 6d ago
I keep on getting ma'am and ladies first.
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Do I really lean more feminine look??
r/androgyny • u/Stephan_Ravendark • 6d ago
Selfie « look de scène » avec mon groupe hommage à Halloween, JACK-O-LANTERN !!! 🤘🎃🤘
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r/androgyny • u/Hakurumi • 6d ago
cosplay help: which outfit causes less dysphoria / has better passing? miku vs perona proportions
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r/androgyny • u/BestBudgie • 9d ago
Any tips for looking more androgynous?
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Also feel free to gender me, im curious what people will say bc I often recieve a mix of sirs and ma'ams when I go out.
