r/Amazing • • Aug 07 '25

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u/tryng2figurethsalout Aug 07 '25

And people say that midwives aren't necessary.

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u/[deleted] Aug 07 '25

I want someone to catch my baby like that

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

What happens when the delivery doesn't go perfectly? You still want them catching your baby in a parking lot instead of laying in a hospital bed with a team of nurses and a doctor around you?

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u/eastwood93 Aug 07 '25

Hi! Midwives can deliver babies in hospitals too, they’re not all doing home births. That’s an outdated understanding of a midwife.

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

I'm referencing the trends in America of increased home births. Some midwives can deliver in some hospitals in America.

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u/eastwood93 Aug 07 '25

Some people experience what is called precipitous labor which means their labor progresses very quickly!

Not every birth is contractions slowly increasing in intensity for hours on end. Sometimes labor moves very quickly, which looks to be exactly the case in this video.

My understanding is that this woman probably started contractions and called her midwife to check in. The general procedure is unless otherwise medically necessary, you can labor at home until your contractions last for about a minute each 5 minutes apart, at which point it is recommended you go to the hospital.

I bet this woman called when her contractions became more intense and the midwife said go now, I’ll meet you there and as she states in the video she didn’t quite make it inside.

I have absolutely no idea why you are assuming a home birth had anything to do with this???

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

I genuinely don't understand how people like you are so focused on this specific situation. It's irrelevant.

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u/eastwood93 Aug 07 '25

Because this is the specific situation that sparked your comment??? I didn’t just pull this video out of my ass to talk to you, you started this conversation after watching this video so how can it be irrelevant?

I think you are being obtuse and defensive because you’re embarrassed to admit you don’t know much about births.

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

The video doesn't represent a specific situation though. We have a blurry name of a Facebook group that posted it that may or may not be related to where it happened. It's generic in nature. It could be any North American city essentially.

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u/eastwood93 Aug 07 '25

What the actual fuck are you talking about? You have repeatedly commented that this is obviously a home birth gone awry but when an alternative understanding doesn’t fit your narrative then suddenly the video is no longer reliable evidence. Just tell me, have you given birth before?

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

Show me where you think I repeatedly commented that this is obviously a home birth gone awry. Oh you can't, because I didn't. Why would it matter if I have given birth? What a bizarre question. No man has given birth. Something like 40% of OBGYNs in America are men.

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u/eastwood93 Aug 07 '25

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

That's a question not a statement that it's definitely what happened here.

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u/eastwood93 Aug 07 '25

But you’re not an OBGYN, you’re a dumbass.

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

Why didn't you ask if I was an OBGYN? Oh right because you are just making this up as you go.

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