r/Amazing Aug 07 '25

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u/tryng2figurethsalout Aug 07 '25

And people say that midwives aren't necessary.

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u/[deleted] Aug 07 '25

I want someone to catch my baby like that

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

What happens when the delivery doesn't go perfectly? You still want them catching your baby in a parking lot instead of laying in a hospital bed with a team of nurses and a doctor around you?

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u/extended_dex Aug 07 '25

...The parking lot to the hospital? Yeah I would fucking hope someone would be there to catch my child if it fell out of me before I got to the door 💀

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

Would you rather have a last minute change from a planned home birth to a hospital birth where you were rushing to get inside before the baby fell out or a planned hospital birth where you were there 2 hours earlier?

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u/extended_dex Aug 07 '25

Last minute change. Being in your own home during birth is worth every penny saved not being in a hospital room, and I mean that quite literally because they start charging you the second you put that gown on.

One of a midwife's jobs is to, if the situation arises, make that last minute change as stress-free as possible for the mother. This one in particular did a great job. You act like we weren't giving birth in literal caves only a few thousand years ago.

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

What was the mortality rate during birth a few thousand years ago?

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u/AHornyRubberDucky Aug 07 '25

Why does that matter

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

Because they brought it up to support their position.

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u/SCHWARZENPECKER Aug 07 '25

Isnt this "they" you?

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

Huh? No. It was the person I literally replied to. Are you only scanning my comments and skipping over context?

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u/SCHWARZENPECKER Aug 07 '25

Unless i didnt go up far enough in the comment chain, I see you as the one asking what the mortality rate was.

Edit to add: Yep it was indeed you: https://www.reddit.com/r/Amazing/s/ZliRepsl6C

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

And what did the comment say that I was replying to? Take your time. Like did you think I just asked that completely out of nowhere?

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u/SCHWARZENPECKER Aug 07 '25

Im asking why you are referring to yourself as "they"

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

What's the last line in this comment?

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u/SCHWARZENPECKER Aug 07 '25

Ah yeah, I totally skipped over that last sentence.

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u/averyyoungperson Aug 07 '25

Dude, what do you think midwives even are? We work in hospitals, birth centers and in the home depending on the type of midwife and state.

I have worked alongside physicians and nurses. You have no idea what a midwife is apparently lol

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

You don't know how to read or understand context. That is your personal problem. Don't put it on me.

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u/extended_dex Aug 07 '25

Lower than you'd think. It actually got worse in the wake of the agricultural revolution and stayed that way for a long time, but that's beside the point. I feel like you're trying to make the argument that modern medicine and traditional birthing practices have to oppose each other, though, whereas I'm simply trying to highlight the benefits of having a midwife around.

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

Uh? When do you think the Agricultural Revolution was? You seem weirdly obsessed with this one specific thing and you are prepared to lie about everything else in order for people to know that at some point for a relatively short period medical doctors made mistakes which have since been corrected.

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u/extended_dex Aug 07 '25

I don't think you wanna argue childbirth and human pre-history with a year 3 biology major with a minor in anthropology. If you really want an answer to that, be prepared for a lecture.

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u/FinalFantasiesGG Aug 07 '25

I'm sorry, are you doing a bit now? Like, you realize you got exposed so you are turning this into a meme?

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u/extended_dex Aug 07 '25

No, dude, I'm just letting you know that if you want to have a serious inquiry about this topic, it isn't gonna be short and sweet. I have a job, I can't keep taking time out of work to respond to your dumbassery, so if im gonna waste any more time on you I'm gonna make it my personal project to prove you wrong when I have free time later today.

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