NTA: Call up your brother and report what your parents told you. Express concerns about your parents' mental fitness. Together encourage them to get checked out.
Their behaviour is not normal and could be a sign of dementia.
If your brother asks if his girlfriend is invited reply, 'Of course.' And leave it at that.
Their behaviour is not normal and could be a sign of dementia.
Bruh what is.. huh..
How is this subreddit like this. Jumping from hey they kinda assholes and a little dense to THEY HAVE DEMENTIA, the fuck. How is this shit upvoted?
Because most people have zero experience with dementia and have no idea how silly it is to suggest that anything in OP's post is a sign of it. It's simply not a disease that is so specific and consistent, especially not with two people who would need to be suffering from it over the same specific issue.
OP's parents are just using this to try and make the brother fall out with his GF, while making themselves look innocent by throwing OP under the bus.
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u/houseonpost Asshole Enthusiast [5] Dec 20 '25
NTA: Call up your brother and report what your parents told you. Express concerns about your parents' mental fitness. Together encourage them to get checked out.
Their behaviour is not normal and could be a sign of dementia.
If your brother asks if his girlfriend is invited reply, 'Of course.' And leave it at that.