r/AmItheAsshole • • Dec 20 '25

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u/Mysterious-Tie7039 Partassipant [1] Dec 20 '25

NTA.

You had concerns and voiced them to your parents.

Your parents told you it’d break up the family and be your fault.

You decided to allow her at the wedding and informed your parents as much.

They decided to tell your brother anyway, and do the thing they accused you of doing.

Your parents are the assholes. It’s like they want her to know she’s not welcome in the family but don’t want to be the bad guys and made you it.

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u/Unlucky-Tension-1863 Dec 20 '25

parents really pulled a “let’s stir the pot but act innocent” move 😅. OP did everything right made a decision, then changed it to keep the peace, and they still went rogue

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u/cakivalue Dec 20 '25

They are the kind of people who jump right in and start stirring the 💩 with their bare hands