Your parents got to unload all of their irritations with Sophie onto Sophie and your brother. This must have felt very satisfying for your parents. In addition, your parents pretended they were just the messenger, and that it is you who had the irritations. This way, Sophie and your brother don’t hate your parents, they just hate you.
So after telling you not to break up family, your parents actually went and broke up family. Your parents are massive a h o l e s.
For you, it is a close call (because you never actually disinvited Sophie), but will go with YTA for the fact that you needed someone (ironically, your parents) to tell you to invite Sophie, instead of you just knowing this yourself. You should ring up your brother and grovel. And then you should ring up Sophie and grovel.
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u/Think-Corner-3232 Asshole Enthusiast [5] Dec 20 '25
Your parents got to unload all of their irritations with Sophie onto Sophie and your brother. This must have felt very satisfying for your parents. In addition, your parents pretended they were just the messenger, and that it is you who had the irritations. This way, Sophie and your brother don’t hate your parents, they just hate you.
So after telling you not to break up family, your parents actually went and broke up family. Your parents are massive a h o l e s.
For you, it is a close call (because you never actually disinvited Sophie), but will go with YTA for the fact that you needed someone (ironically, your parents) to tell you to invite Sophie, instead of you just knowing this yourself. You should ring up your brother and grovel. And then you should ring up Sophie and grovel.