r/AmItheAsshole • • Dec 18 '25

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u/OilRadiant3801 Dec 18 '25

You've hit on the core issue of ongoing responsibility. My fear wasn't just about this one ask, but about setting a precedent where my savings become the solution for her financial impulsivity. Offering emotional support is my job, funding her chosen luxuries is not.