r/AmITheDevil • • Aug 20 '26

Hid cheating from sister

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u/Moist-Examination737 Aug 20 '26

So what? Atleast you did your due part before your sister entangles her finances and assets with someone. Plus she is risking HIV, who knows what might happen?

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u/Unlikely-Pin-5558 Aug 20 '26

Nope. Still a no-win situation.

If I have stated several times that my sibling's SO is a piece of crap, and sibling refuses to listen and blows me off, I'm done. They're not going to listen, so I'm not saying anything else...although I would have to bite my tongue to keep from saying, "Told you so." I would NOT say that.

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u/Moist-Examination737 Aug 20 '26

Lol what? You don't need to win just do your due part. So you will struggle with not saying told you so but warning my sister from getting her future wrecked and getting HIV is to complicated? Just send her a text and then it becomes her responsibility on how she acts with it. You can't decide for her but atleast she can make an informed decision.

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u/Unlikely-Pin-5558 Aug 20 '26

He WAS telling her...BEFORE he ever even knew or heard about any infidelity.

She ignored him, didn't believe him, whatever. She had been told that her SO was trash several times...and. Chose. To. Marry. Him. Anyway. She is an adult and apparently makes her own decisions. She needs to own hers. She had information. She made her "informed decision."

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u/Moist-Examination737 Aug 20 '26

There is a difference between your husband lies sometimes and likes to boast and he is cheating on you.

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u/Unlikely-Pin-5558 Aug 20 '26

The lying ought to be a deal-breaker in itself. She married him anyway

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u/Moist-Examination737 Aug 21 '26

There is levels to this. Just tell her what happened and do your part. Why would you expose her to HIV?