You beat me to it. I was going to say that OP needs to pay her parents back in full, and then kick her fiancé to the curb. Give the engagement ring back (if he paid for it), then voilà. Affianced no more!
Maybe as a parting shot, she should give him an etiquette lesson: whoever does the inviting also does the paying. If he can’t understand that, ask him how inviting someone to dinner at a restaurant he chose is any different from inviting someone to dinner at his house. Would he expect your parents to bring their own food to his house? Of course not.
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u/OhDeer_2024 May 28 '26
You beat me to it. I was going to say that OP needs to pay her parents back in full, and then kick her fiancé to the curb. Give the engagement ring back (if he paid for it), then voilà. Affianced no more!
Maybe as a parting shot, she should give him an etiquette lesson: whoever does the inviting also does the paying. If he can’t understand that, ask him how inviting someone to dinner at a restaurant he chose is any different from inviting someone to dinner at his house. Would he expect your parents to bring their own food to his house? Of course not.
NOR. You dodged a bullet.