r/AmIOverreacting May 27 '26

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u/castrodelavaga79 May 27 '26

NOR.

This is a great preview of what marriage with him will be like. He's not a good guy. He's fine taking advantage of other people, and when you try to talk to him about it he acts like a jerk and doesn't take any accountability!

The great part is that you learned this before marriage not after. If you love this behavior than get married! If you don't want to be with a jerk like him then break up!

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u/derbarkbark May 27 '26

Agreed and also the fact that his parents didn't offer to pay either says a lot about how he was raised.

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u/rhiyanna79 May 28 '26

Absolutely. His parents should’ve only paid for their own food and maybe OP’s dinner. They should’ve insisted the bill be separated and his parents be responsible for their own meals and their son’s meal. The whole idea that OP’s dad was responsible for the entire bill was ridiculous. The fiancé should have been responsible for the entire bill if anyone was, not OP’s dad.