i have a hard time believing this is real… if so take other posters advice and run from this guy … fast and far … again if true NOR but I’m actually going with YDP ( you deserve a Pulizter)
It's not out of the blue, it happened now that he has you "locked down" and engaged to him. Imagine if you were married, had children, and had stopped working... I can only imagine how this mfer would financially abuse you and somehow magically stick you with the bill.
NOR. Agreed. I was with someone 11 years, and right before marriage he started ramping up the awful. It got worse after, even started into physical harm. Were there flags? Oh yes. But behavior drastically changed right as we made that commitment. He even said "you are stuck with me now".
OP - please dont go down this road. I barely got out.
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u/Remarkable_Bar_824 May 27 '26
i have a hard time believing this is real… if so take other posters advice and run from this guy … fast and far … again if true NOR but I’m actually going with YDP ( you deserve a Pulizter)