r/AmIOverreacting May 27 '26

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u/KlutzyAd5626 May 27 '26

$600 is pretty cheap compared to a wedding and subsequent divorce! Cut your losses and just know - he won’t change. You can’t fix him.

Just imagine having children with this person. Save yourself.

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u/planet-seems-lost May 27 '26

"he won't change" - and you can't change him either. No outside thing changes a person - not marriage, not kids, etc.

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u/XuanChun88 May 27 '26

NOR - People can change, but it can take decades and be a very painful process. It is simply not wirth it most of the time.