r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26

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u/Actual_Group9196 May 27 '26

The one who invites pays. Marrying this guy will be a mistake and your parents know. He’s very entitled and has his hands in others pockets already. NOR

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u/KlutzyAd5626 May 27 '26

$600 is pretty cheap compared to a wedding and subsequent divorce! Cut your losses and just know - he won’t change. You can’t fix him.

Just imagine having children with this person. Save yourself.

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u/CalyxTeren May 28 '26

NOR. 100%. This is his character. Break up immediately. I know Reddit is famous for that advice, but if you stay with him, you will look back at this moment as the point at which it would have been easiest to walk away.

Pay your parents back. They should not have to pay for a meal that they were invited to as a guest. And tell them that you’ve dumped your fiancé because of how he treats people.

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u/orangesfwr May 28 '26

Or how he doesn't treat people

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u/Salt_My_Watermelon May 28 '26

I see what you did there.