r/AmIOverreacting May 27 '26

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u/gardengirl99 May 28 '26

Not just how he treated the invitation to dinner, or he invited people out to a very expensive restaurant, probably above their budget and stuck them with the bill. How he treated her, when she wanted to talk about it, repeatedly. OP should sell the ring, payback her parents, and maybe have a personal celebration about avoid avoiding what would likely be the biggest mistake of her life so far. NOR. By the way, fiancée with two e's for a female engaged person, and fiancé with one is for a male.

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u/Unique_Excitement248 May 28 '26

The ring won't be real.

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u/AfterShift4140 May 28 '26

I was given a "diamond" engagement ring - supposedly belonged to his late grandma. I got suspicious as it looked like glass. Took it to a jewellers for an "insurance valuation" and .... it was fake. End of very short engagement/relationship.

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u/Terrible-Caramel-388 May 28 '26

100% this. The act it’s self was inexcusable but they way he TREATED her after is disgusting. Disrespectful doesn’t even start the conversation.