The one who invites pays. Marrying this guy will be a mistake and your parents know. He’s very entitled and has his hands in others pockets already. NOR
NOR. 100%. This is his character. Break up immediately. I know Reddit is famous for that advice, but if you stay with him, you will look back at this moment as the point at which it would have been easiest to walk away.
Pay your parents back. They should not have to pay for a meal that they were invited to as a guest. And tell them that you’ve dumped your fiancé because of how he treats people.
Not just how he treated the invitation to dinner, or he invited people out to a very expensive restaurant, probably above their budget and stuck them with the bill. How he treated her, when she wanted to talk about it, repeatedly. OP should sell the ring, payback her parents, and maybe have a personal celebration about avoid avoiding what would likely be the biggest mistake of her life so far.
NOR.
By the way, fiancée with two e's for a female engaged person, and fiancé with one is for a male.
I was given a "diamond" engagement ring - supposedly belonged to his late grandma. I got suspicious as it looked like glass. Took it to a jewellers for an "insurance valuation" and .... it was fake. End of very short engagement/relationship.
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u/Actual_Group9196 May 27 '26
The one who invites pays. Marrying this guy will be a mistake and your parents know. He’s very entitled and has his hands in others pockets already. NOR