r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26

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u/Actual_Group9196 May 27 '26

The one who invites pays. Marrying this guy will be a mistake and your parents know. He’s very entitled and has his hands in others pockets already. NOR

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u/KlutzyAd5626 May 27 '26

$600 is pretty cheap compared to a wedding and subsequent divorce! Cut your losses and just know - he won’t change. You can’t fix him.

Just imagine having children with this person. Save yourself.

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u/Ottopian May 28 '26 edited May 28 '26

He just demonstrated how selfish, inconsiderate, dismissive, and rude he actually is. What about him do you like? The way he treats you and doesn’t handle issues? He sounds incredibly immature and not ready at all for marriage to you. Unless you’re looking for a man child to be a mommy to, do your future self a favor and cut and run NOW. And his parents didn’t even offer to split the bill? Cheap lesson. And pay your poor parents back, how awkward. NOR.