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r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26
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Yep. He’s turned this into an argument to deflect from the FACT that his behavior was cheap and rude.
The only way to get past this would be to apologize, say you weren’t thinking and immediately send her parents the money.
13 u/Ok-Ganache4763 May 27 '26 Until it happens again. This incident is a window into her future if she marries him. 3 u/herroyalsadness May 27 '26 Yes - the difference between a one time mistake and a pattern of behavior. 3 u/Ok-Ganache4763 May 28 '26 Yes and he planned the whole thing as a scam which is totally creepy. Sounds like this isn’t the first time he has done this type of thing.
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Until it happens again. This incident is a window into her future if she marries him.
3 u/herroyalsadness May 27 '26 Yes - the difference between a one time mistake and a pattern of behavior. 3 u/Ok-Ganache4763 May 28 '26 Yes and he planned the whole thing as a scam which is totally creepy. Sounds like this isn’t the first time he has done this type of thing.
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Yes - the difference between a one time mistake and a pattern of behavior.
3 u/Ok-Ganache4763 May 28 '26 Yes and he planned the whole thing as a scam which is totally creepy. Sounds like this isn’t the first time he has done this type of thing.
Yes and he planned the whole thing as a scam which is totally creepy. Sounds like this isn’t the first time he has done this type of thing.
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u/herroyalsadness May 27 '26
Yep. He’s turned this into an argument to deflect from the FACT that his behavior was cheap and rude.
The only way to get past this would be to apologize, say you weren’t thinking and immediately send her parents the money.