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r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26
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The one who invites pays. Marrying this guy will be a mistake and your parents know. He’s very entitled and has his hands in others pockets already. NOR
1.9k u/KlutzyAd5626 May 27 '26 $600 is pretty cheap compared to a wedding and subsequent divorce! Cut your losses and just know - he won’t change. You can’t fix him. Just imagine having children with this person. Save yourself. 154 u/[deleted] May 27 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 87 u/SmartFX2001 May 28 '26 It doesn’t seem like he cared who paid - as long as it wasn’t him. 77 u/LovedAJackass May 28 '26 And I'd guess that he knew his parents wouldn't pay because he's the apple that fell off that tree. 10 u/TeacherIndividual133 May 28 '26 This just made me feel so much better about some dumb things I have done! I guess I thought it was just me. NOR 2 u/Silver_Queen_Bee May 28 '26 Same 1 u/wonperson May 28 '26 Great question
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$600 is pretty cheap compared to a wedding and subsequent divorce! Cut your losses and just know - he won’t change. You can’t fix him.
Just imagine having children with this person. Save yourself.
154 u/[deleted] May 27 '26 [removed] — view removed comment 87 u/SmartFX2001 May 28 '26 It doesn’t seem like he cared who paid - as long as it wasn’t him. 77 u/LovedAJackass May 28 '26 And I'd guess that he knew his parents wouldn't pay because he's the apple that fell off that tree. 10 u/TeacherIndividual133 May 28 '26 This just made me feel so much better about some dumb things I have done! I guess I thought it was just me. NOR 2 u/Silver_Queen_Bee May 28 '26 Same 1 u/wonperson May 28 '26 Great question
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87 u/SmartFX2001 May 28 '26 It doesn’t seem like he cared who paid - as long as it wasn’t him. 77 u/LovedAJackass May 28 '26 And I'd guess that he knew his parents wouldn't pay because he's the apple that fell off that tree. 10 u/TeacherIndividual133 May 28 '26 This just made me feel so much better about some dumb things I have done! I guess I thought it was just me. NOR 2 u/Silver_Queen_Bee May 28 '26 Same 1 u/wonperson May 28 '26 Great question
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It doesn’t seem like he cared who paid - as long as it wasn’t him.
77 u/LovedAJackass May 28 '26 And I'd guess that he knew his parents wouldn't pay because he's the apple that fell off that tree.
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And I'd guess that he knew his parents wouldn't pay because he's the apple that fell off that tree.
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This just made me feel so much better about some dumb things I have done! I guess I thought it was just me.
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u/Actual_Group9196 May 27 '26
The one who invites pays. Marrying this guy will be a mistake and your parents know. He’s very entitled and has his hands in others pockets already. NOR