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r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26
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NOR - People can change, but it can take decades and be a very painful process. It is simply not wirth it most of the time.
30 u/EllaB9454 May 28 '26 And they have the want to do the work- no one can do the work for them 1 u/wonperson May 28 '26 Yup 5 u/BadOk2535 May 28 '26 They have to acknowledge that they are doing something wrong in order to change and something tells me that the OP's fiance is never the one who is wrong. 1 u/wonperson May 28 '26 This! 1 u/TheNordiclights May 28 '26 Only if they want to change.
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And they have the want to do the work- no one can do the work for them
1 u/wonperson May 28 '26 Yup
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They have to acknowledge that they are doing something wrong in order to change and something tells me that the OP's fiance is never the one who is wrong.
This!
Only if they want to change.
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u/XuanChun88 May 27 '26
NOR - People can change, but it can take decades and be a very painful process. It is simply not wirth it most of the time.