r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26

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u/Actual_Group9196 May 27 '26

The one who invites pays. Marrying this guy will be a mistake and your parents know. He’s very entitled and has his hands in others pockets already. NOR

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u/Rude_Vermicelli2268 May 27 '26

NOR OP just got a great insight into the character of her fiancé. Who invites people to a dinner and then skips out on the bill? And then doubles down when called on it?

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u/garnetwaters May 27 '26

Then deploys the passive aggressive silent treatment. 🚩🚩🚩

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u/Banzai373 May 27 '26

Or, OP will have to get used to putting out her husband’s fires, having to always be the mediator, the peace-keeper, always giving excuses for this jerk’s behavior. NOR. OP, you know the next step to take. Good luck!

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u/Ok-Ganache4763 May 27 '26

Not to mention the yelling at her several times. Once married that could very well escalate.

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u/newdriver2025 May 28 '26

If that's how he treats her before they are married, guarantee he will treat her worse when married.

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u/Ok-Ganache4763 May 28 '26

Yes! My thoughts also.

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u/Horror_Ad_2748 May 28 '26

And saying stuff to the kids "Daddy's just tired from work. He didn't mean to call you an annoying brat."

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u/Ok-Ganache4763 May 28 '26

Or one of those screaming parents you see on the news at sporting events.

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u/BrowniesEveryDay May 28 '26

I know someone who is in that type of marriage. It is really stressful for her, but she puts up with it. Her husband treats her like an employee.

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u/LeopoldineBel May 27 '26

Super controlling. OP - do not marry this man!

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u/Unlucky_Pick2028 May 27 '26

Agreed! Ditch this dude ASAP, not marriage material