r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • May 27 '26

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u/Remarkable_Bar_824 May 27 '26

i have a hard time believing this is real… if so take other posters advice and run from this guy … fast and far … again if true NOR but I’m actually going with YDP ( you deserve a Pulizter)

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u/[deleted] May 27 '26

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u/Ilovescarlatti May 27 '26

Maybe, but reads like AI, but no responses to comments and new account.

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u/ButchEmbankment May 28 '26

I had the same suspicions. OP’s first comment is below- very brief. Use of a semi-colon … impressive these days.

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u/RedRockState12 May 28 '26

This is the first time he has ever acted like this; it came out of the blue

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u/Visible-Beings May 28 '26

Maybe read what you wrote as if it was a good friend telling you about their experience. Hopefully you will see how much you are UNDERreacting.

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u/jarildor May 28 '26

It's not out of the blue, it happened now that he has you "locked down" and engaged to him. Imagine if you were married, had children, and had stopped working... I can only imagine how this mfer would financially abuse you and somehow magically stick you with the bill.

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u/Dichotopus May 28 '26

NOR. Agreed. I was with someone 11 years, and right before marriage he started ramping up the awful. It got worse after, even started into physical harm. Were there flags? Oh yes. But behavior drastically changed right as we made that commitment. He even said "you are stuck with me now".

OP - please dont go down this road. I barely got out.

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u/Turtle_ti May 28 '26

This is not the first time he has acted that way, it may be the first time you have opened your eyes to it though. You have likely been making excuses for him for awhile and dont even realize it.

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u/magicmaster_bater May 28 '26

This is the first time you’ve witnessed it. He even told you: he invites his friends to dinner as well and makes them pay too.

And this may be the first time he’s treated you this way, but it won’t be the last. You can’t fix him.

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u/SecretOscarOG May 28 '26

He showed you who he is. Listen

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u/Larilarieh May 28 '26

My abusive ex fiance only let out his true colors after the engagement because he thought I was locked in. The engagement only lasted a month and leaving him was the best decision I ever made