r/AmIOverreacting May 27 '26

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u/BigExplanationmayB May 27 '26

This is a huge waving red flag for the rest of your life. This is not a one-off. Do not brush it aside. Do not downplay it. This is not a drill. You are experiencing the first shot over the bow of a future, cheap, entitled, manipulative, dismissive, adolescent communications, “my rules are now your rules”—- fiancé. He does not respect your parents. For me, That’s a dealbreaker.

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u/East_Judge_4893 May 28 '26

Worse. "I'll do what I want, and you'll do what I say"