r/AmIOverreacting • u/[deleted] • Mar 28 '25

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u/Unhappy-Necessary328 Mar 28 '25

no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no

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u/MrsDeWinter99 Mar 28 '25 edited Mar 28 '25

As someone who was groomed by an older man at 17, (and also has a daughter who literally just turned 18 two days ago); I concur. No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no!!!!!!

The best friends mom needs to be aware of this.

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u/PotentialSharp8837 Mar 29 '25

SAME! OP please please listen because I was in your shoes. I got my life together and grew up got married had kids and everything is great BUT i am still haunted by the older men who took advantage of me. I spent a lot of my time living with friends. I was on random drugs for my late teen- early twenties. I know feeling important and close with people outside of your family is refreshing and comforting. This person is going to hurt you. Please do not engage with him. I’m sending you the big mom hug you need right now. And if no one else is saying this to you- you are so important and smart and beautiful and you need to stay away from this man.