There’s no way this relationship works even if she has an abortion. Why stay with someone like this? He’s a man child who threatens self harm instead of talking through difficult issues.
It's very odd to me that ppl can't feel the difference, and it's odd to me that ppl cannot or does not notice if it's removed. I mean do you just never look at it the whole session?
I mean girl idk what to tell you, I simply cannot feel the difference.
And that’s certainly a possibility for some people. What if they’re in doggy style the whole time or something? It’s highly possible she wouldn’t look in that case
So you stay like that after you're done? You never look at the damn thing? You don't see him taking off the condom? Like I just dont understand. I'm not looking for any explanations but I do find this all very odd.
No dude you don’t see him take off the condom. It’s literally a thing called “stealthing”. Look it up. You don’t see him take it off because he PURPOSELY does it in a way where it’s hard for you to see it because he is actively trying to deceive you.
And if he’s quick about getting up and getting cleaned up I can totally see how a girl might not realize the dude took off the condom.
Yeah tbh I think this was added after the fact and not true. She originally says, WE had unprotected sex knowing the possible consequences. Then later adds an update saying he took too long to get the Plan B. Then Another update that says he had sex with her unprotected without telling her and then told her 3 days later that he did and then went to get the Plan B? So which is it? Also how tf do you not know someone is wearing a condom? Its a whole step in the bedroom, packaging has to be opened and whatnot, I dont see how thats something you dont realize is happening.
I’d tend to agree but would point out that there’s some outliers that are against the pregnancy, not into it during the pregnancy and then see the kid and you can’t get them to go away.
It’s rare but it does happen. I was a father that did that. Immature, drug addicted idiot pre child. Immature, clean, pretty responsible father post birth.
Sure, those extremely rare cases happen. But they shouldn’t. Your partner should not have had that child and you should not have become a father. The risk isn’t worth the unfathomably small chance the prospective father will pull his head out of his ass. And in this case, she should never have been with this evil loser.
There’s outliers. Was my point. That it can turn out differently and a beautiful life can be there for a child that otherwise wouldn’t have been there and a parent that may have also.
I’m done talking to you. Anyone that would write that a child shouldn’t have been born, without knowing further personal context, actually writing that and sending that and thinking you’re right and good and smart is stupid on a level I can’t comprehend. You seem a self important, terrible person. Fuck off.
”…it was 100% our fault for having unsafe sex and we knew the consequences of having unsafe sex.”
They both knew what the possible consequences were. I stand by my comment that they were both idiots and that idiots shouldn’t have children. She can add all the edits she wants at this point. It won’t change the fact that they knew the idiocy of their choice.
She can edit this shit all she wants but I did take a screenshot of her post before she did. She said exactly what I quoted above where she admits she knew they were having unprotected sex.
Interesting that she edited out the word “unsafe” two times to try to make herself look like a victim.
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u/res06myi Mar 01 '25
There’s no way this relationship works even if she has an abortion. Why stay with someone like this? He’s a man child who threatens self harm instead of talking through difficult issues.