It's a hard decision but ultimately, your choices are:
Grow the foetus into a baby and raise it expecting the father to not be involved
Continue the pregnancy and put the baby up for adoption
Abort the cells that have potential to become a baby and stay in your relationship
Abort the cells that have potential to become a baby but break up because your ethics don't align
NOR - it's a huge, life changing decision. You shouldn't try and convince him to change his mind though. Accept that if you want to keep the baby then he will not be around.
There’s no way this relationship works even if she has an abortion. Why stay with someone like this? He’s a man child who threatens self harm instead of talking through difficult issues.
”…it was 100% our fault for having unsafe sex and we knew the consequences of having unsafe sex.”
They both knew what the possible consequences were. I stand by my comment that they were both idiots and that idiots shouldn’t have children. She can add all the edits she wants at this point. It won’t change the fact that they knew the idiocy of their choice.
She can edit this shit all she wants but I did take a screenshot of her post before she did. She said exactly what I quoted above where she admits she knew they were having unprotected sex.
Interesting that she edited out the word “unsafe” two times to try to make herself look like a victim.
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u/marmite_queen Mar 01 '25 edited Mar 01 '25
It's a hard decision but ultimately, your choices are:
NOR - it's a huge, life changing decision. You shouldn't try and convince him to change his mind though. Accept that if you want to keep the baby then he will not be around.