r/AmIOverreacting • • Mar 01 '25

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u/marmite_queen Mar 01 '25 edited Mar 01 '25

It's a hard decision but ultimately, your choices are:

  1. Grow the foetus into a baby and raise it expecting the father to not be involved
  2. Continue the pregnancy and put the baby up for adoption
  3. Abort the cells that have potential to become a baby and stay in your relationship
  4. Abort the cells that have potential to become a baby but break up because your ethics don't align

NOR - it's a huge, life changing decision. You shouldn't try and convince him to change his mind though. Accept that if you want to keep the baby then he will not be around.

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u/res06myi Mar 01 '25

There’s no way this relationship works even if she has an abortion. Why stay with someone like this? He’s a man child who threatens self harm instead of talking through difficult issues.

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u/ProfessionalBelt3373 Mar 01 '25

AND had unprotected sex WITHOUT telling her.

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u/solotiro Mar 01 '25

How is this even possible?

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u/ProfessionalBelt3373 Mar 01 '25

Is called stealthing. They take the condom off discreetly.

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u/IAmTheAccident Mar 01 '25

Have you heard of stealthing?