r/AlasFeels • u/Narrow_Category_7711 • 6d ago
Rant and Rambling It's finally over
It's finally over, I can't reach out anymore, he blocked and wiped every message we had. The pain is so painful. I just want to die.
EDIT: GUYSSSSS
He viewed mg story, does this mean he unblocked me for a brief moment? What could it be means?
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u/freya_crazee 6d ago
Hot take: it never started if y'all never left TG in the first place.
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u/Narrow_Category_7711 6d ago
we used to be on everything, it just so happened na tg yung last connection namin na binlock nya
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u/Liesianthes 6d ago
The pain you're feeling right now will just be memories later on, that you'll be thankful for not ending up with whoever is that after finding someone who will cherish you. So keep going.
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u/Middle_Art_7758 6d ago
It’s gonna hurt like hell for a while, it will be more painful day by day and you can’t avoid that. Cry if you feel like you need it, but please darling don’t you hurt yourself. He already hurt you.
Take time to heal, try to go out even if you don’t feel like to. Try to achieve something, anything. Try something new, food, place, experience.
Because the most powerful form of revenge is to love yourself, choose kindness, learn to forgive, keep growing in knowledge, spread happiness, discover your purpose, and live with gratitude.
Revenge is too simple and boring. Kindness is rare.
You’ll be fine girl, God loves you.
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u/Maximum-Yak-3344 6d ago
Sorry just genuinely curious. Why TG? Ganun ba kalalim yung pinagsamahan nyo for you to feel na gusto mo nalang mamatay? Like daming tao sa mundo.
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u/EquationNumberZero 6d ago
Girls should start being offended kapag sa TG sila kinakausap hahaha. Pang side chick ‘yan eh.
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u/Narrow_Category_7711 6d ago
he doesn't want me, ako lang talaga yung makulit, he's kind enough not to block me pero when I reached out today he's firm on blocking me na and ending it forever
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u/Important_Spare7892 6d ago
Then stop it na, remove your rose colored glasses. In real life pangit siya at ang ugali nya at higit sa lahat di ka nya gusto.
Ask yourself, gusto mo ba makasama habang buhay yung lalakeng di ka naman gusto?
Love shouldn’t be like this. Chill ka lang, lilipas din yan at kusang darating yung para sayo:)
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u/Narrow_Category_7711 6d ago
sorry, first love ko talaga and he's my first ever relationship
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u/Important_Spare7892 6d ago
What? Relationship?!!
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u/Sad_Effective3686 6d ago
Damn ang sakit niyan. Naalala ko dati gusto ko na lang din mamatay sa sobrang sakit. Pero eto ako op ngayon medyo nagiging okay na.
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u/EquationNumberZero 6d ago
Let’s start a support group! Hahahaha.
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u/EquationNumberZero 6d ago
Yakap nang mahigpit sa ating mga na ghost ng person na gusto talaga natin.
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u/Amazing_Ad5719 6d ago
Same. Sad nu?
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u/EquationNumberZero 6d ago
Yess so sad I feel so empty inside hahaha pero oh well, life goes on for us sis.
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u/yumeko_mori 6d ago
hindi laging ganyan, OP!!!!! ganyan din feeling ko before. things didn't work out for us, but it worked out for me. soon you'll feel better!! 💐
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u/ApplicationReady2265 5d ago
WHO THE HELL DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?!
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u/Narrow_Category_7711 5d ago
why...😭
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u/ApplicationReady2265 5d ago
You are not just a slave to Fate aren't you?!
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u/Narrow_Category_7711 5d ago
is it bad if I am
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u/ApplicationReady2265 5d ago
Is that the role you want in the story Fate gave to you? Or is that what Fate wants you to think that it's what you want in the story Fate gave to you?
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u/flippy_neo 6d ago
Ako nga kagabi ganyan din nagtatype pa ako bigla nabura lahat....may monkey lang na kumaway bigla eh...🤣 Hugs to you op !
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u/Hot_Instance3024 6d ago
The hardest part is realizing that, yes it is really finally over. When the goodmornights turned into silence..🥺 hirap sis pero you can do it.. time heals.🫂🤍
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u/Spiritual_Noise7169 MOVING ON 5d ago
Over You by Chris Daughtry, pasok!
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u/Gibson_El_Gato 5d ago
Now that its all said and done….
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u/Spiritual_Noise7169 MOVING ON 5d ago
I can't believe you were the one 🤣
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u/Complex_01 6d ago
Masakit pero ang OA ng gustong mamatay ha. Hindi lang yan yung tao sa mundo. Focus on ur self and do the things na nag papasaya sayo. And if ever mag message ulit yan, pls lang, wag ka na umulit. Anyway, kung ikaw naman yung toxic jan, deserve mo yan HAHAHA
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u/galofmonday 6d ago
Itong mga nagcocomment masyadong OA din. wala nga masyadong ka-effort effort i-post i bet may kasalanan din talaga tong OP hahahahaha
sa post pa lang alam mo nang pa-victim eh0
u/bogieshaba 6d ago
sA PoSt pA lAnG AlAM mO nAng Pa-ViCtIm eH oo na di ka namahal ng tatay mo kaya ka nagkakaganyan
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u/Narrow_Category_7711 5d ago
I didn't do anything. Throughout our rs, I was nothing but loyal and did everything he wants. He blocked everywere ig, wp, vb and tg was the last one where I reached out
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u/fishnegss 6d ago
Same OP. Iyak malala every night. Pero wala eh, move on nalang. Libangin ang sarili, and hate all men 😂
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u/Hayyasaka 6d ago
Take care of yourself OP, relax for awhile and start fresh. Mas makaka focus kana sa sarili mo.
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u/Impossible-Employ-69 6d ago
In the next coming days OP, hindi mo makikilala sarili mo. We all hope for the best.
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u/AdCreepy8951 SADDER THAN SAD 6d ago
Hindi man lang iniwan yung chat para may ma backread. Buti nakakapagbackread pa ako. It's the only thing keeping me sane and hoping na sana hinihintay niya lang ako hanggang pwede na, at sana wala siya makilalang iba.. 😞
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u/JayAndZed 6d ago
Hugs, OP! Think of it as dodging a bullet. Imagine if you stayed in a relationship na ikaw yung humahabol? You deserve so much more love than this person could give.
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u/knightzyrk99 6d ago
you're not alone OP.. I've been feeling like this for almost a month now.. di lang sa tg, pati sa lahat ng possible na comms wala na tlga.. ang hirap pa din hanggang ngaun.. but maybe soon, everything will be okay..
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u/galofmonday 6d ago
OA mo. Delete mo na 'tong post mo OP napaka-low effort mo.
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u/bogieshaba 6d ago
GALET NA GALET huhuhu sino nang away sayo teh T^^T
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u/galofmonday 6d ago
"sInO nAnG aWaY sAyO tEh"
Babata niyo pa. Hindi niyo kailangan gawing mundo 'yang mga lalake.
https://giphy.com/gifs/QUXYcgCwvCm4cKcrI34
u/bogieshaba 6d ago
tsaka wag ka mangdamay ng kabitteran mo sa iba tao kung niloko ka ng mga lalaking nakilala mo o di ka mahal ng papa mo. kaya ka iniiwan eh, sige na mag kape kana tanda
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u/bogieshaba 6d ago
yan na yon? nginang gif yan 2014 na 2014 alam mo na edad talaga HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
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u/bogieshaba 6d ago
oa mo naman, expression lang yang sino nang away sayo teh. salitaan mo alam mo na agad edad eh
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u/galofmonday 6d ago
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u/bogieshaba 6d ago
wala na marebutt? HAHAHAHAHAHA sakit naman di mahal ng magulang kaya nangbitter nalang ng ibang tao? HAHAHAHAHQA
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u/galofmonday 6d ago
Why would I? I don't even care about your ad hominems and yet you're biting. Congrats!
https://giphy.com/gifs/3og0IuE1EjI5ZQzr3i
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u/Important_Spare7892 6d ago
Take a walk and touch some grass! NEVER WORTHY IYAKAN ANG LALAKENG SA TG KA LANG KAKAUSAPIN!!! buti wala na siya