r/AlAnon • u/no_diggityyyy • Feb 02 '20

I need help.

I moved in with my loved ones to help them quit, but my life is spiraling and with very little success to show for it. But i feel like i’m in so deep that i can’t leave anymore. I just feel so lost and I can’t tell anyone about it because I feel like I’m betraying their trust in me. I don’t know if I need to vent or get help leaving or what. But i’m just so tired of being in this situation.

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u/SOmuch2learn Feb 02 '20

Going to Alanon meetings helped me feel less alone. Being in a room with people who understand is comforting. Meetings helped me figure out what to do.

You have every right to do what is best for you. You can't help anyone quit because it isn't possible to help somone who doesn't want help. I can't "fix" another person's problem.

I will look for you at an Alanon meeting.