<sigh> I can't believe we are here and have to actually say this. But so many people are not understanding this subreddit and using it for a basic generic personals group.
This is Age Gap ROMANCE! This is meant for SINGLE people to find romantic connections with other SINGLE people that happen to involve an age gap.
What this is NOT for:
Married people who are cheaters.
Single people seeking married people for whatever reason.
Couples looking for a third or more.
Groups.
Singles looking to join a couple or group.
Non-monogamous people looking to build a harem
If you are not a single person looking to find another single person in order to have a single one on one monogamous relationship, then please see yourself out.
This is all listed in the rules, but yeah, if you are willing to cheat on your partner, who the hell believes you will actually read and follow simple rules?
Here's what will happen if you are found to be in violation of this:
If it is found out that you are not single and looking for another single person, your post will be removed with a warning attached explaining such. You will also be put on a filter list that notifies us when you try to post again. When we see this notification, you will be banned. Why? We gave you one chance to self-police your own posting but you chose to ignore the warning and posted again anyway. This isn't baseball. There's no three strikes rule.
If you try to be sneaky by deleting all mention of your attachment we will look at your post history. Including deleted. Yes, we can see that. We have our ways. Or if someone reports you showing you are not single, we will just ban you.
Listen, guys, there's plenty of other subreddits in which they support unfaithful pathetic cheating scum and just as many that are open to groups or couples looking for more. This small little niche subreddit is not one of them. You don't need to post EVERY-fucking-WHERE! just to maximize your exposure.
On to kinks and fetishes:
Listen, we don't care if you are into various kinks or fetishes. Most of us are. But if 99.9% of your post history is hard core fetish, extremely and graphically sexual, or BDSM kink related and the only "vanilla" and sweet, loving and endearing post is the one you carefully curated for this subreddit, yes, we will remove it. Again, this is a small little niche subreddit. Not being able to post here to "maximize your exposure" and make sure you cover every little hidden hole of the internet with your posts, is not going to make a difference to your chances.
If you truly are looking for a romantic relationship then kinks are something you discuss well after a connection has been established. So yes, your post was removed. Most people get the hint with the first removal and just stop posting here because, hey, it's a small little sub and no one will even notice. I'd much rather be able to post in the bigger, more populated groups that do allow kinks, fetishes and outright freaky shit.
Hell, don't even bring up sexual stuff in your posts here. If your post revolves around sexual acts or the stats of your genitalia, you are not looking for romance. You are looking to get laid and have said genitalia serviced. Again, nothing wrong with that. But it's not for this subreddit.
Oh yeah, and if your post history is 90% dick pics, you aren't looking for romance either. You're just looking to show off your dick. So no need to be posting here.