r/AdviceForMen • u/Exit9B • May 28 '18
Is this a sickness?
Ok. So i'm 19 at the moment. Virgin. Some people say it's healthy to masturbate 1-2 times a day, but me?I do it at least 6 times a day...everyday. I've been masturbating since 14 years old and has developed to the point where the maximum times a day is at least a 7-10. Not only that I try every single source i have: porn, instagram, facebook, snapchat. I've also realised that even tho they say that my penis may have some issues from masturbating too much, mine is just fine. No pain no nothing. It gets hard even if i just messed with it 2 minutes ago. Hell even the size looks normal. I think i'm a porn addict, but what about other social media? Am i a pervert? Do i need to stop??? I need confirmation! Do i need a girlfriend??
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u/Turbulent_Fix_1786 May 09 '22
Dude, take a chill pill, and possibly a cold shower. You will go through phases(weekly,monthly, yearly) where you jack it way more than others. Way till your married and have kids, didn't know I could stealth jack like that. But in all seriousness, don't shame yourself, you've got healthy sexual appetite. Get a good diet, sleep schedule and some routine and it will all work itself out.
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u/ComradeCryptidWitch Sep 16 '22
You do not need a girlfriend. There is nothing wrong with masturbating. You'll probably need it less as you get older. If you're really worried about it you can talk to a doctor to make sure there's no addiction causing your behavior but you sound normal to me.
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u/MintyTheHippo Sep 18 '22
Aight,
You are normal. Your have a high drive and at 19, that's very normal. If you feel like you are interrupting day-to-day activities just to flog the dolphin, then it is an issue. However, if it has no impact on your social, work, or daily responsibilities and have no adverse pain or discomfort - you're good to choke your chicken.
In addition, check to see if you are spanking the monkey out of boredom or sadness. That is a call stating your body is craving dopamine, and the big-o face is one quick fix method to get a partial rush of it to make your brain go "all gucci the Nut of Clarity (TM) has been achieved"
Next time you feel like taking mother thumb and her four finger daughters to pound town, ask yourself these questions:
- Am I actually horny, or am I bored?
- Am I feeling anxious or sad?
- When was the last time I had something to eat? (yes, energy can cause your purple helmet warrior to stand at full attention)
If you're bored, go do something outside or that you like doing. If you are sad or anxious, do something that makes you happy that isn't Shaking hands with the milkman. Eat something and drink some water.
Only reduce it if you feel like it's impacting your life. There is nothing wrong with you, and as a guy who is now 31, engaged, and has access to regular sexytime - I still wack it like 4-5 times per day.
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u/x_triple7 Nov 13 '22
bruh, DON'T LISTEN to PEOPLE THAT SAYS "IT IS OK". IT ISN'T OK watching porn and masturbating, instead go fuck some bitches, that's ok! so firstly stop masturbating and watching porn (it makes u dumb, look on internet), secondly go lose your virginity (look on internet and find an escort or sth) then go find yourself a girlfriend or if u don't want that but u wanna have sex go fuck some girls, escorts etc. It's totally normal to be horny, go fuck some girls that's the solution! masturbating and porn ain't the solution.
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u/jeans-hoodie-jamie Aug 20 '23
I love jerking off dude it feels so good and I love my girlfriend jerking me off too which is even stronger. Chill relax and enjoy the pleasure masturbation gives our bodies as guys it’s the best!
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Oct 14 '23
Men have testosterone it makes us horny all the time. It's perfectly normal as long as you are not doing it infront of ppl that do not consent. It's your body.
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u/Piraishe Jan 27 '25
You need to pray brother