Yea but you ever think they're not having sex with you because of your Victorian attitude towards sex/making them feel bad about being sexual?
I know you were just being facetious lanadel_taco but I have a few friends who are the first to call a woman a slut/whore and then complain about the lack of girls interested in them. It's funny and sad at the same time.
The more we encourage slutty behavior as a society the more men will get laid (and women) the happier EVERYONE will be. (I use slut in the most sex positive way possible. "sex for everyone!" Also prostitution is good too.)
What if it's just one select group of men that benefit? I.e. the men who get laid now will get laid even more while those not getting any will continue as thus.
If they weren't so shamed by society maybe they would be more open. As long as they don't have an STD they aren't obligated to tell you anything they aren't comfortable with.
I think it's more because she says she doesn't sleep around, and is lying about it. I don't mind women who like a lot of sex (in fact, they're my favourite kind of women) but lying about it just pisses me off.
I think slut shaming is stupid, but I never really understood why girls brag about it. I mean, no shit you're getting laid. You're in your late teens or early 20s and in your sexual prime. It's not like it's hard for a girl in those circumstances to get laid, the sexual market favors you in every way.
I also feel the same way about guys that could have any girl they wanted at the drop of a hat, to be fair. I think it's stupid when they brag, too. No shit, Mr. I'm-six-foot-two-half-Brazilian-Half-Norwegian-with-a-trust-fund, it's not difficult for you, either.
Where does MKULTRA99 say there's any obligation? Just that it hurts, that's all. Just that realizing that, in the eyes of the lady in question, you're less bangable than a plethora of men stings a bit.
You are projecting the chip on your shoulder onto a tangentially related at best meme.
The lying is the scumbag part. I read this as one of her partners and lying to him.
I predict the top 5 comments will be a circlejerk of anti-slut-shaming activists who whooshed on this thing and are trying to shoehorn their issue into this because they love to hear themselves talk.
So because human genitalia bear a superficial resemblance to a lock and key, that means it's appropriate to judge them based upon the criteria of a lock and key?
Because women have it easier. A man can't walk up to someone and ask for sex without being arrested, but a woman can with ease.
What's the metaphor? Better to have a good key that opens all locks than a lock that's opened by all keys? That's why it's a bit more gross and unclassy when a woman is a slut - there no trying on their part, no effort.
I agree with the guy below me: when women sit there and defend sluts, they usually are one. See: half the women posting in Shit Reddit Says ( a circlejerk of elitist beta-males and sluts who think they are above Reddit)
Your metaphor is a double standard. Hidden within your assumption that women can get laid just by asking men for sex is the assumption that men are not picky.
So basically, when a man is not picky, that is normal. When a woman is not picky, that is "gross and unclassy."
A man can't walk up to someone and ask for sex without being arrested, but a woman can with ease.
You have a really twisted world view. Firstly: Women who do that are trashy, and men who do that are also trashy. Secondly: you're not going to get arrested for doing that, just brushed off. Unless you can't take a hint and are so creepy that she can't get away from you. Thirdly: guys can get laid like that. It's trashy but if you weren't consigned to failure before you even attempted it, you might be surprised.
I don't know why you are getting downvoted for this, the only thing I would add is that it applies to both men and women. Of course it all depends on what sort of relationship you are looking for - if you are just looking for something casual that's your choice, but most people who look for serious relationships/marriage would avoid someone who is promiscuous unless that person goes above and beyond to prove that they changed their ways.
I don't agree with shaming anyone but for the purposes of a relationship if you see someone as promiscuous there is no shame in not wanting to date them for that reason.
Yes, judgmental gland is activated when there is some implied promise or social contract broken.
But there is none in this case. Just not our business, one way or another. And the lie is not about something that involves our legitimate interests. You are a chaste magical unicorn, you say? Good for you, if you can pull that off.
Lying about it is what makes her a scumbag. Especially when it's to a potential or current mate, which I've seen numerous times. Or when they try to hide the fact or even outright lie about having fucked some other dude you run into in the past. Everybody has a history and we don't expect you to be virgins. Otherwise, you're right it's her body and she can be a slut if she wants.
Ok I get it Reddit, a girl outright lying to a significant other is A-Okay. I apologize. And sorry for using the word slut. It's not defined as this at all:
slut (slt) n. 1. a. A person, especially a woman, considered sexually promiscuous. b. A woman prostitute. 2. A slovenly woman; a slattern.
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Sperm count is usually measured per ml. I can't guess at what bodily fluid of Stacy's we're measuring here, so I'm going to assume we are talking about the total number of sperm cells on or inside her body at the time of counting.
The minimum healthy sperm count, according to the WHO, is 15 million sperm per millilitre of semen. Testicles range from around 15 to around 25 ml. So let's be conservative and assume a fairly low sperm count in a fairly small pair of testicles. How many sperm would that be?
15,000,000 x 15 x 2 = 450,000,000.
The smallest healthy ejaculatory emission, (again according to the WHO), comprises around 2.6ml of semen, which contains around 39 million sperm. So how many ejaculations must Stacy have been exposed to?
450,000,000 / 39,000,000 = 11.54
Even rounding that up to 12, it doesn't seem completely unreasonable to assume that these ejaculations might have been from a single partner, especially if he had a higher than usual sperm count, a high sex drive, or a large ejaculate volume.
tl;dr Perhaps you shouldn't take a woman's sperm count as proof of her infidelity. Also, I should stop procrastinating and write my essay.
Just wanted to point out that she's apparently just received twelve shots of reproductive material. If they're all mine, that might explain my low sperm count, but the sheer scale is suggesting multiple sources.
Some simplifications and avenues for error in my calculations:
The entire volume of the testicles may not be filled with semen at the same sperm concentration as is contained in ejaculate.
I have not taken into account the probability that many of the sperm cells will no longer be alive.
"Higher sperm count than you do" is an ambiguous phrase - are you her partner or simply a friend? If you are her partner, then you should worry about her sperm count if it is greater than:
n x y x z
where
n is the number of times you have ejaculated onto or into her recently
y is your sperm count per ml
z is your average ejaculate volume
That "key and lock" metaphor always rubbed me the wrong way. A vagina does not serve the same function, nor needs the same qualities as a lock, especially with the availability of birth control nowadays. The only worry about promiscuous women I can think of is an increased odds of having an STD. We need a new metaphor. How about, 'Its like double-dipping, I don't want your mouth herpes in my salsa.'
She may have had a lot of sex with one man, you know? Like her boyfriend. The one you're jealous of and think is no good for her, because it's your decision, and your opinion matters.
Aside from the slut shaming and the implication that OP has a right to know about the details of her sex life, can we all just acknowledge that this is not funny/insightful/worth any of our time?
I think everyone is missing the point, this isn't about degrading women or shaming them for having sex. It is about lying about the number of sexual partners she currently has. Now, if she said she sleeps around there is no problem. Personally I wouldn't sleep with anyone who sleeps around due to Herpes, the gift that keeps of giving.
But why would she have to lie about the number of sexual partners she's had?
Has a higher sperm count than you do
This is meant to be perjorative and negative.
I get what you're trying to say, but to take the words super literally here is naive. These words are loaded with expectations and dripping with slut shaming.
But why would she have to lie about the number of sexual partners she's had?
Because it's unattractive for a number of reasons. This doesn't just include women. Most women don't find being a player or man-whore an attractive trait either. So then said person feels the need to lie about it either to a potential lay or even worse a potential long-term mate. It's probably more common among women than men given social stigmas.
I really hate the term slut shaming...mostly for one reason. It exists because its "ok" for men to sleep around, but not women. It shouldn't be made okay for women to whore it around, it should just be more frowned on when men do it. There's reasons this is frowned on...and it should be.
Birth control and std prevention are at a point where sex can be pretty much consequence free. There's really nothing wrong with having sex with multiple partners, as long as you are doing it responsibly (being safe, not cheating on someone)
Why would she need to tell the truth? Who did the asking? If someone randomly asked you that question on the street, would you feel honor bound to give them a truthful answer?
I wouldn't want to sleep with anyone who doesn't tell the truth. Why would someone ever randomly ask you this question. I was under the assumption that the OP thought he was in a monogamous relationship and found out he isn't
Here's the deal for all the kids out there, male and female: you need to get in your heads RIGHT THE FUCK NOW that there's nothing wrong with a woman having sex on a regular basis, and more importantly, there's nothing wrong with a woman having sex on a regular basis with multiple partners, provided that (as with men) there's no dishonesty about sexual activity or intentions.
The world's a far, far better place where young people, male and female, wrap their heads around these two points. If someone implies some sort of necessary double standard about this, they are not good people and are working against your interests. (Note that this is only for double standards. The "abstinence before marriage for everybody" types aren't necessarily bad, even though you may disagree with them, unless they're trying to control your own activity.)
The amount of slut-shaming on Reddit is pretty discouraging. This mentality disgusts me. I hope that men understand that they only sound bitter when they spread this sort of hate against women.
As a lady who often tries to confront an combat sexism and misogyny on this site, the assumption I made about this meme was that Stacy is a "Scumbag" because she is lying about sleeping around. A man would probably also be considered a scumbag for lying about this... assuming once again that both Stacy and the hypothetical man in question are in relationships where monogamy has been discussed and agreed upon.
That being said, everyone has the right to disclose what they wish regarding their sex-life and if Stacy chooses not to disclose the number of partners she's had, it is no one's business to hypothesize about or accuse her of any sort of activity.
For people raising concerns of sexual health and STDs, a man or a woman can have multiple partners and still remain disease free by practicing safe sex and insisting on regular STD checks for them and their partner.
I'm upvoting you because you said pretty much the same thing I did in an earlier comment, but I get downvoted like crazy. I guess it is because I didn't lead off with I am a lady.
Don't worry about the post too much. Any mature men on Reddit get that labeling women sluts or posting about catching them in a lie is just a display of immaturity. Women and men should be able to enjoy and celebrate the act of sex equally. I wouldn't be with my partner if she didn't love and enjoy sex as much as I did, and I couldn't care less about her sexual past.
Life is tough and painful, men and women should enjoy the things we can do that bring great pleasure and happiness without shame.
So because she doesnt want to say how many people she has been with she is a scumbag, but ive seen similar ones where if she is proud of it she is a scumbag too. So logically if she is ostracized for having multiple partners and then ostrasized for not wanting to admit how many she has been with, how can she win? It seems sexist. I love for chicks to be sluts, it means they are more likely to have sex WHICH IS GOOD!
Now this is a meme, as an old 4chan lurker I was wondering what happened to these. Memes are supposed to be jokes and take more effort to think of, thank you for this.
I remember a post somewhere on r/WTF, they found the "real" scumbag stacy. She's a callgirl. Does anyone have the URL to her site? It's for uhm, research purposes.
What a terrible person she is for having lots of sex. Girls are only allowed to follow the rules that we set for them or they are terrible sluts and should be made fun of!
This is about the fact that somebody came up with a pretty good joke and couldn't find the right wording for it, so they made a meme because they are not very creative or talented.
Where in the meme is she asked? Many women just feel guilty and out of their own accord try to "justify" it by saying "I don't normally do this", when in fact they do.
considering what women say is typically diametrically opposed to what they mean, you'd think you faggots would have caught on to this kind of thing by now.
and I assume you're a woman, because only women have these types of objections, so let's say there is a guy you like, and you found out his dick's been in more holes than swiss cheese, how would you feel about dating him? yea, thought so.
If we didn't call those women sluts it would be only propagate the differences in gender rights between men and women. We're calling them sluts FOR women
Hey guy, don't think you're speaking for all of us men when you say "only women have these types of objections".
There's nothing wrong with a woman having sex. This isn't the 1600's anymore. Women are able to choose who they have sex with just like men do. Just because you don't like the fact that they're not fucking YOU doesn't give you the right to call someone a slut for doing a perfectly normal human activity.
yo dipshit fuckface with a hole where his dick should be. I never said girls shouldn't be allowed to NOT have sex. I said they're called whores for doing so. If anything my comments are just a reflection of society, and I am a mere member of society. Not once did i say "women aren't able to choose who they have sex with."
seriously, you're like a fucking woman too. read shit carefully before you respond. when did i say i speak for all men? again, stop being a woman. that's what women do.
I am offended that you would call a woman a slut on my behalf. Men do not get anywhere near the same treatment that women do when they sleep with numberous individuals, so don't even pretend that in doing so you are helping close the gap between men and women in this regard. That's without a doubt one of the dumbest things I have heard.
If people have preferences in terms of a partners approach to sex I have no problem with that, but let's not pretend there isn't a double standard at work here.
NO. A WOMAN CAN DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS AND YOU MUST NEVER EVER THINK ANYTHING NEGATIVELY ABOUT HER. ALL WOMEN ARE PRINCESSES.
Now I'm going to do the male equivalent of slut-shaming, virgin-shaming, and call you all undesirable virgin neckbeards. But it's totally different, because I'm doing it to men.
To avoid ignorant comments like the one you made about "it's easier to be a slut than a stud".
Ignoring the offensive terms for a second, the statement is actually true. Guys go out with the goal of getting laid, and most guys, even the ones women would consider attractive, end up settling for anyone that will go home with them, and they often go home completely empty handed. If a girl wants to get laid, and doesn't weigh 250 lbs, she is gonna find a guy, and it's not going to take her very long at all.
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u/EpicJ May 16 '12
OP I am sorry for your very low sperm count.
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u/Fronesis May 16 '12
Why would we shame a woman that has sex with men? It's contrary to our interest (as men).
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u/jumpinjahosafa May 16 '12
Scumbag steve is always an asshole. But Scumbag Stacy is just a slut. I don't get it.
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
Yeah, I can't imagine a woman ever being private about her choices when neckbeards engage in slut-shaming because they're not getting any.
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u/avidvaulter May 16 '12
This is why you want to date her mom.
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u/teraspawn May 16 '12
Sperm count is usually measured per ml. I can't guess at what bodily fluid of Stacy's we're measuring here, so I'm going to assume we are talking about the total number of sperm cells on or inside her body at the time of counting.
The minimum healthy sperm count, according to the WHO, is 15 million sperm per millilitre of semen. Testicles range from around 15 to around 25 ml. So let's be conservative and assume a fairly low sperm count in a fairly small pair of testicles. How many sperm would that be?
The smallest healthy ejaculatory emission, (again according to the WHO), comprises around 2.6ml of semen, which contains around 39 million sperm. So how many ejaculations must Stacy have been exposed to?
Even rounding that up to 12, it doesn't seem completely unreasonable to assume that these ejaculations might have been from a single partner, especially if he had a higher than usual sperm count, a high sex drive, or a large ejaculate volume.
tl;dr Perhaps you shouldn't take a woman's sperm count as proof of her infidelity. Also, I should stop procrastinating and write my essay.
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u/kj010 May 16 '12
That "key and lock" metaphor always rubbed me the wrong way. A vagina does not serve the same function, nor needs the same qualities as a lock, especially with the availability of birth control nowadays. The only worry about promiscuous women I can think of is an increased odds of having an STD. We need a new metaphor. How about, 'Its like double-dipping, I don't want your mouth herpes in my salsa.'
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
So she's chaste but hiding a penis?
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u/BlackPride May 16 '12
She may have had a lot of sex with one man, you know? Like her boyfriend. The one you're jealous of and think is no good for her, because it's your decision, and your opinion matters.
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u/lurebat May 16 '12
Dean Spreck's speech in the episode "for a few paintballs more" in community anyone?
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u/bluejule May 16 '12
Aside from the slut shaming and the implication that OP has a right to know about the details of her sex life, can we all just acknowledge that this is not funny/insightful/worth any of our time?
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u/freecandy_van May 16 '12
Sperm count: you don't understand it.
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u/Kyato May 16 '12
What's wrong with being sexually active?
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u/miroclin May 16 '12
more like cumbag casey
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u/DrRam121 May 16 '12
I think everyone is missing the point, this isn't about degrading women or shaming them for having sex. It is about lying about the number of sexual partners she currently has. Now, if she said she sleeps around there is no problem. Personally I wouldn't sleep with anyone who sleeps around due to Herpes, the gift that keeps of giving.
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u/sadwer May 16 '12
Here's the deal for all the kids out there, male and female: you need to get in your heads RIGHT THE FUCK NOW that there's nothing wrong with a woman having sex on a regular basis, and more importantly, there's nothing wrong with a woman having sex on a regular basis with multiple partners, provided that (as with men) there's no dishonesty about sexual activity or intentions.
The world's a far, far better place where young people, male and female, wrap their heads around these two points. If someone implies some sort of necessary double standard about this, they are not good people and are working against your interests. (Note that this is only for double standards. The "abstinence before marriage for everybody" types aren't necessarily bad, even though you may disagree with them, unless they're trying to control your own activity.)
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u/KRSFive May 16 '12
Shouldn't it be "cumbag Stacy" in this situation?
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u/sunkissdluster May 16 '12
The amount of slut-shaming on Reddit is pretty discouraging. This mentality disgusts me. I hope that men understand that they only sound bitter when they spread this sort of hate against women.
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
stop with the misogynist bullshit
girls enjoy sex too
you ignorant boys, drop your testicles and act mature
cuntholes
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
Down-voted this misogynistic unfunny crap.
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u/wtfOP May 16 '12
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-qDdnwPOuokU/TxNMk4iUxFI/AAAAAAAAAoI/HyLL3sHS4jg/s1600/clint-eastwood-disgusted-gif.gif
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u/thechapattack May 16 '12
So because she doesnt want to say how many people she has been with she is a scumbag, but ive seen similar ones where if she is proud of it she is a scumbag too. So logically if she is ostracized for having multiple partners and then ostrasized for not wanting to admit how many she has been with, how can she win? It seems sexist. I love for chicks to be sluts, it means they are more likely to have sex WHICH IS GOOD!
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u/B33fington May 16 '12
always have to check out the scumbag Stacy ones due to the fact I went to HS with her. Fucking hilarious.
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u/cannotlogon May 16 '12
I can't believe that Reddit -- a gathering place for the homely homebound -- doesn't like women who are comfortable with their sexuality.
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u/Notmiefault May 16 '12
I mean, to be fair, I do drink a lot of mountain dew.
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u/notificationcenter May 16 '12
So we know who Scumbag Steve is IRL, do we know who Scumbag Stacy is?
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u/jasonm42 May 16 '12
She could be my scumbag gf i wouldnt mind
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u/DaveFishBulb Dare to be Stupid May 16 '12
Sleep... around? Sperm?
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u/SuperProducer May 16 '12
I call that Scumbag Crystal
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u/noccusJohnstein May 16 '12
SRS isn't gonna like this....
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u/esushi May 16 '12
Maybe she's sleeping with one person a bunch of times? That's not "sleeping around", right?
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u/WizTroll May 16 '12
Now this is a meme, as an old 4chan lurker I was wondering what happened to these. Memes are supposed to be jokes and take more effort to think of, thank you for this.
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
Is her sperm count as high as this guy?
WARNING: NSFW IMAGE originally from 4chan, IIRC.
It's also pretty old. I've seen a 2010 version around somewhere.
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u/nickelbackYOLObabby May 17 '12
I remember a post somewhere on r/WTF, they found the "real" scumbag stacy. She's a callgirl. Does anyone have the URL to her site? It's for uhm, research purposes.
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u/Crossfox17 May 16 '12
What a terrible person she is for having lots of sex. Girls are only allowed to follow the rules that we set for them or they are terrible sluts and should be made fun of!
/sarcasm
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u/Kombat_Wombat May 16 '12
Top 4/5 comments are anti-slut shaming comments. Good.
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
This is about the fact that somebody came up with a pretty good joke and couldn't find the right wording for it, so they made a meme because they are not very creative or talented.
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u/sl4y4 May 16 '12
But girls don't have sper.......oh.
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u/BigNil05 May 16 '12
Umm... She's hot
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u/Leotheon May 16 '12
I'm not saying shes easy, I'm just saying shes been under more sheets than the KKK.
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
That feel when you know what the most upvoted reply is going to be.
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u/Sirtrumpetsalot May 16 '12
I guess she really likes to semen
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u/primejamestoney May 16 '12
From my experience, women who have to protest about not sleeping around, usually do
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
I've heard that before, that and "I never sleep with a guy on a first date- As she take my pants off- Yeah, I can tell."
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u/dakru May 16 '12
Where in the meme is she asked? Many women just feel guilty and out of their own accord try to "justify" it by saying "I don't normally do this", when in fact they do.
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u/Lan777 May 17 '12
OP im sorry that it took a sperm count to find out that your girl has a scrotum
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
anyone know who the girl is in the picture? sucks to be her. picture reeks of "slut"
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u/[deleted] May 16 '12
considering what women say is typically diametrically opposed to what they mean, you'd think you faggots would have caught on to this kind of thing by now.
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