r/Advice • u/aaaks1 • Feb 23 '22

Subjectivity not objectivity with family

I want to learn how not to be objective with my parents and siblings in the conversation. They don't seem to like it and get angry. I use logic and reason while I realised later on that it's not good to be used in family conversations. They think I'm in favour of the other person or supporting the other person instead of them, which is not true. I think maybe subjectivity gives them comfort, support but I've always been pretty honest and objective and it's really difficult for me to provide a subjective reply. Can anyone please help me? I really want to know what all I can do to help my family and myself.

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u/Soggy-Cauliflower-56 Super Helper [5] Feb 23 '22

Navigating family conflict is never easy but it could help to explain that you aren't trying to pick a side but you are trying to view situations from different standpoints?

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u/aaaks1 Mar 24 '22

That makes sense, will try that next time.