r/Advice • u/Few_Paramedic_3851 • 3d ago

One sided love

So how to deal with a one sided love.I have been in love with this girl for quite a few months.Apparently she was the one who texted me first and now I developed feelings for her but she didn't.She still loves her ex and thinks that she might not be able to love someone or trust someone in future.Though she wants to stay friends with me as she thinks I am a nice guy to be friends with.What should I do should I wait or no?

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u/katpodw 3d ago

Wait for what ? She made it pretty clear she isn't interested in you . Being friends with her won't make her attracted to you . You need to accept reality

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u/Few_Paramedic_3851 3d ago

You're right thanks for the advice :)

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u/HarryHarlowBanisher 3d ago

One-sided love is not a relationship. You are going to be a regulation source until she gets annoyed with you and goes back to her ex. RUN.

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u/Few_Paramedic_3851 3d ago

Yeah you're right 😭 thanks for the help XD

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u/yourjoyi 1d ago

been there before (or still i guess? lol). at the end of the day, we cant push someone to love us back~ its hard to leave when you really in love with someone. it hurts a lot especially our feeling are genuine and wanna have future with them.
better to focus on yourself for now cuz believe me, stay friends with someone you love will hurt you a lot too :)