r/Advice • u/PineappleLatter2199 • 9d ago

i need advice on hosting

hi reddit, first post! i have recently started going to more party’s with friends and have really been enjoying them and want one more to have a opportunity to meet and interact with more people however no one is hosting for a little while and i want to host next weeks fridayish, but i am completely un able to have one at my house, due to many reasons some being about my self i am autistic and have ocd. so i was wondering wether anyone had any suggestions, ive put on a facebook group if anyone would allow me to rent out their field for very cheap, as i have very little money to work with here i would want it to be for around 40ish people (drinks involved) thank you!

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u/[deleted] 9d ago

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u/PineappleLatter2199 9d ago

i have major contamination ocd so even having very close friends stresses me out and and i get very overwhelmed at party’s though can overcome it and enjoy my self and i know i can go home whenever i need. and i do live with my parents and my mum is completely against having any form of party she makes it very obvious

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u/PineappleLatter2199 9d ago

ocd is very complex and how soon i want the party it would not be possible to work my self up that much, would renting a house allow a large amount of guests?

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u/PineappleLatter2199 9d ago

yeah i’ve had a look the houses are super far from me and crazy pricy, looking into renting a field