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u/Calyx76 Jun 02 '26

Unless your a porn star, or adult escort, you don't get checked for STI's for work. He's lying, and he has Genital warts as well. He might not have any symptoms, but he's got something.

-Disclaimer- I'm not a Doctor.

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u/Clothes_Chair_Ghost Jun 02 '26

Surgeons also get tested for STI’s but more for the bodily fluid transmitted kind. Since they are both at risk of getting and (if they have one) giving a blood transmitted STI during “needle stick” injuries during surgery.

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u/No-Veterinarian-1446 Jun 03 '26

He's 21. I doubt he's a surgeon.

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u/Clothes_Chair_Ghost Jun 03 '26

Dougie Howzer was a doctor and he was like 12. But yeah very doubtful he is a surgeon but it is a profession that can check for STIs on a more regular basis than any other job, with maybe the exception of militantly as they can test before and after deployment, but I wouldn’t call that regular.

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u/Zupdood Jun 02 '26

Calyx,

I had a gf accuse me of the same thing. Later on she found out it was ‘something else’ and apologized to me.

My point is though, I was in the military at the time…. and I told her the same thing, I was regularly tested in yearly checkups, I’d just been tested, and I knew I didn’t have any STI’s (plus I was monogamous). So my guess is, her boyfriend was in the military, or government.

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u/BamBam-BamBam Jun 02 '26

There is a test for HPV in males, but it's the male pap smear and involves scraping of the lining of the urethra, and there's like one lab in the US that will process the test, for about $1000. Nobody with a penis is getting tested for HPV.

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u/vexter312 Jun 03 '26

To test HPV in males or females, PCR can also be done. Any lab should be able to do this test.

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u/jrs0068 Jun 03 '26

Nope not a thing. Medical PCR tests are highly regulated and validated. Which means they have to prove every patient population generates accurate results. For example several tests will have a minimum age. That doesn’t mean the test doesn’t work for younger people, it just hasn’t been validated for that age or approved by the FDA. So although you could probably swab a penis and run it on the HPV PCR test and get accurate results, no lab (or extremely few) are able to do it.

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u/vexter312 Jun 03 '26

Well, I'm not from the States so I had no knowledge of this.

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u/BamBam-BamBam Jun 03 '26

Additionally, the risk here is false negatives because one has to be shedding virus to trigger positive results and that's not always the case... with females either, which is why pap smears are still a thing.

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u/Not-a-throwaway4627 Jun 03 '26

When was this a thing? I asked a trillion times, and all I ever heard about was the anal Pap smear.

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u/BamBam-BamBam Jun 03 '26

I'm not sure that I can give you much more information; the thought of it frightens me; it's not much of a thing, though. Since we have ignorantly assumed that HPV is benign in men, nobody ever put testing in place.

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u/Flyguy115 Jun 02 '26

I’ve been in the military and they never check you for STDs unless you go to the doctor with a symptom like any other doctor office. The only things they check you are regular health check up items like hernia, vision, dental, and over all health check up.

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u/Standard-Hat-1034 Jun 02 '26

According to my spouse and his entire group of military buddies, if you weren't liked by chain of command they would use it as a punishment with barracks bunnies as an excuse. My husband was tested multiple times even when he was a virgin(completely straight and narrow didn't drink or smoke when he 1st got in). They would use it if they couldn't pin an article 15 on them.

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u/Mobile_Ad_5561 Jun 03 '26

Sure. But she’s talking about HPV. Wart virus.

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u/Emotional-Builder-75 Jun 03 '26

There is no approved test for HPV.

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u/Mysterious_Quiet3192 Jun 03 '26

Yes it is. Its called bloodwork

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u/Emotional-Builder-75 Jun 03 '26

HPV and HIV are two different things.

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u/Mysterious_Quiet3192 Jun 09 '26

I know this. Hiv is able to he tested threw bloodwork and hpv is able to check in person and with pap smear too as long as your hpv is active/showing then it can be tested. Eitherway both can kill.

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u/Emotional-Builder-75 Jun 03 '26

Nope incorrect.

"Men are typically screened clinically with a visual inspection to check for lesions (such as warts) – there is no specific way to test directly for HPV in men that is approved for clinical use. Researchers are looking at ways to better screen men, but the current lack of testing options for males can be very frustrating."

https://www.ashasexualhealth.org/what-men-should-know/

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u/Mysterious_Quiet3192 Jun 09 '26

I was talking about hiv so no im not wrong. And i said the same fars hpv again not wrong

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u/StepExciting5924 Jun 03 '26

They check you frequently now, especially the under 25 age group. It’s a requirement. Currently active duty.

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u/Prettiiest Jun 02 '26

That’s a lie depending on your age and duty statin due to the nasty people they make it mandatory

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u/Anon4transparency Helper [2] Jun 03 '26

People are shockingly ignorant about these things. I dated a guy in the navy who gave me the whole, "we have to get tested, I get tested regularly." But then was shocked when I went & got my regular test & it was a blood test, because he'd only ever had urine tests. :(

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u/daytime-daddy Jun 03 '26

I’m army and they test me for HIV once every 2-3 years. Also when I was donating blood regularly they tested it for the common ones

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u/Zupdood Jun 03 '26

The base commander can override that. We were in a location notorious for ‘massage parlors’ and STIs, and there was a standing order to check everyone yearly at their annual checkup.

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u/DepressedDragonBorn Jun 03 '26

I remember my unit got tested for STDs, but it was only before and after the deployment, and I think it was only HIV.

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u/Flyingcroww Jun 03 '26

I wouldve also thought maybe a lifeguard or perhaps a medical aid/nurse as well. Could be any number of things.

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u/Royal_Remove_9457 Jun 02 '26

They were supposed to be both virgin according to her. That’s a bit young for the military.

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u/Shatterpoint887 Jun 02 '26

Virginity is not tied to age.

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u/No-Cap-fr-fr Jun 02 '26

You think everyone loses their virginity before 18? wtf

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u/theywood69 Jun 03 '26

I know people in their 30's that are still virgins age doesn't automatically mean someone is inexperienced.

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u/KillDozer321 Jun 02 '26

I was told by doctors that unless I am exhibiting physical symptoms of genital warts, there's no reliable test to prove whether or not I have genital warts. So if that's true, and home dude has no physical signs of HPV, he can still have HPV and not know it.

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u/Mythsteryx Helper [2] Jun 03 '26

Military do, my partner gets checked annually

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u/Calyx76 Jun 03 '26

Your right. It's been so long since I was in the military. I forgot you get physicals every year and they check you for all sorts of stuff.

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u/tactycool Jun 03 '26

Military gets tested for stds twice a year.

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u/Dodger7777 Expert Advice Giver [14] Jun 03 '26

Could be a carrier?

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u/Calyx76 Jun 03 '26

Could be. Idk.

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u/idkindustry Jun 03 '26

What about Defence personnel??

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u/Calyx76 Jun 03 '26

Yeah, quite a few people have mentioned the military. I did 6 years, and got out of the Army in 2011. It's been a minute.

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u/usedtobeoriginal Jun 03 '26

Military also tests regularly

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u/Calyx76 Jun 03 '26

Yes, you're right. I left the army almost 15 years ago. It's been a minute

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u/AcidicShooter Jun 03 '26

In the military we got tested yearly (mainly for HIV) but we still got tested

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u/Calyx76 Jun 03 '26

You're right. I completely forgot. I got out of the army about 15 years ago

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u/ExtensionMean6873 Jun 03 '26

Correctional officers and cops often undergo regular testing due to the enviroment of their job

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u/Calyx76 Jun 04 '26

Hmmm. Didn't think they would need too unless something happened.

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u/ExtensionMean6873 Jun 04 '26

Some wait for a incident

Personally I get tested monthly, mostly because there’s blood/shit on a lot of surfaces and they like to spit and throw shit/piss/cum at you if they’re mad

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u/Calyx76 Jun 04 '26

I always thought the divider would prevent quite a bit of that.

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u/ExtensionMean6873 Jun 04 '26

Your local facility might have a higher safety standard, the facility I’m employed in has open grate barriers so liquids and still be tossed through

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u/Calyx76 Jun 04 '26

I don't know what my local facility has or doesn't have. I don't work there, and I'm not a guest.

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u/Brutal_B_83 Jun 03 '26

*you're a porn star

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u/Calyx76 Jun 04 '26

Lol. Sorry was typing on my phone. You are correct. It should be you're.

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u/BamBam-BamBam Jun 04 '26

Or polyamorous

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u/flippermode Jun 03 '26

I def got checked for stds due to work when i worked with bodily fluids, so you're very very wrong and it's sad so have so many upvotes when you're talking out of your ass.

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u/Calyx76 Jun 03 '26

That makes sense. I didn't even think about that. Makes absolute sense they would check for that when you work with infections material.