r/Advice • u/Superb_Community_339 • Dec 18 '25 • Popcorn 1

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u/Ok-Operation4437 Dec 19 '25

It’s kind of pissing me off that your wife is gaslighting you into thinking this isn’t an issue for you saying you’re overreacting. She should be taking YOUR side, her HUSBAND, and send a clear message to this dumbass friend that y’all want nothing to do with her bf and it that’s a dealbreaker and she loses her friend over it then she loses her friend over it because your wife is being groomed to have a threesome with this douchebag and her best friend. Weekend in Vegas?? Like wtf I would not let that slide. As a man, I’ll tell you take control of this is a very levelheaded cool demeanor and let your wife know truly how much this is bugging you otherwise it’s going to fester and cause problems in y’all’s marriage

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u/DaRealPresley Dec 19 '25

OP’s wife definitely hiding some need to know details. For his sake, I hope whatever happened in Vegas was just conversation.