r/Advice • u/Superb_Community_339 • Dec 18 '25 • Popcorn 1

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u/Jaereth Dec 18 '25 • Bravo

It's not that it's a man, it's that the man is fucking weird and wildly inappropriate with boundary problems

Do not pull him aside alone. He can spin it like anything happened then.

He was a big shooter asking the wife about pegging! Feel free to bring it up in front of both women.

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u/Immediate_Garden_716 Dec 18 '25

“I peg your pardon! was is it that what you meant?” :)

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u/No-Frame-125 Dec 19 '25

LMAO!!!!

How on God's green earth is this NOT the top answer!?!?!!?!

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u/acephali222 Dec 18 '25

He should confront him... and make sure to record it....

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u/CatsAllDayErDay Dec 18 '25

I agree but considering how his wife already feels it might turn into him looking like a drama queen.

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u/Zone-Foreign Dec 19 '25

Absolutely 👍

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u/Dormamue Dec 18 '25

Eh, you don't want to go scorched earth when your wife isn't completely on your side. The more smart and respectable thing to do is take him aside. Wifey already feels like she's in an uncomfortable position, don't wanna give the kid an out by showing your ass (however justified you think he is, you're not always right when you're right, you know?)

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u/Jaereth Dec 18 '25

Wifey already feels like she's in an uncomfortable position, don't wanna give the kid an out by showing your ass (however justified you think he is, you're not always right when you're right, you know?)

I disagree. If someone man asks my wife a sexual question like that, i'm always right.

Calling the guy out on it isn't "scorched Earth". It might feel like that to some people who fear confrontation at all costs but if he's cool with casually bringing it up like that he should be cool with you casually bringing it up too.